2006-07-25 07:49:40 · 47 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
only if you don't mind a married life with little variety, since you won't know what you are doing and won't have the benefit of experience to use to make each other feel good.
2006-07-25 07:54:51 · answer #1 · answered by starcow 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Umm, no place in the Bible is it wrong. Adultery (having an affair when you are married is wrong) but not premarital sex. Even the Puritans didn't consider it wrong, as long as people were married should a pregnancy result. It wasn't until the reign of Queen Victoria that the Western world began viewing sex as a sin. Put down the Bible and pick up a history book for a change.
2006-07-25 08:03:03 · answer #2 · answered by Spirit_of_1776 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im going through that exact same dilemma right now! And I was all gung ho about doin the deed, but then I thought long and hard. And have decided, I dont think it's wrong necessarily, I just feel it's better to wait as long as possible till you find someone worth losing the Vcard to. So when in doubt, wait. And plus, so many people have std's and dont know it until they get checked. So if the person doesnt wait, then they should for sure get tested.
That is all. Kthanks.
2006-07-25 07:56:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage has only been around since society created it. Sex has been around a lot longer. What is right and what is wrong is up to you - not what society tells you.
2006-07-25 07:54:38 · answer #4 · answered by methodz1218 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on your age, where you live, what religion you practice if any, your education, etc. If you are too young, it might be against the law. If you live in certain places, it might also be illegal. If you are religious, it might be against your beliefs. If you are not educated enough, you might end up pregnant, with AIDS, or STDS. Personally, if you are legally old enough, I see nothing wrong with it, but you need to be educated on the topic and know about STDS, birth control, condom use, etc. Don't just go into it blindly.
2006-07-25 08:08:07 · answer #5 · answered by xenomorph_girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the culture, the religion, the society.
example the VN. Bahnars dont have kids fore marriage. but the j'rais need kids to get married.
next is ur conscience how it was primed, about right and wrong.
2006-07-25 08:00:48 · answer #6 · answered by kamesvari i 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The Bible says it's a sin.
The Bible also tells you not to eat pork or shrimp and not to conduct business on Sunday and not to envy your neighbor's big-screen TV.
I think it is wrong to have sex with anyone with whom you would be ashamed to produce a baby, and wrong to have unprotected sex unless you are attempting to make a baby. And if you're married, it's wrong to have sex with anyone not your spouse.
2006-07-25 07:55:14 · answer #7 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong only if it goes against your personal beliefs. Do not let anyone else press their beliefs on to you. Assuming you are mature enough to make that decision, then just think about your beliefs and values. That is where the true answer will be found.
2006-07-25 07:54:17 · answer #8 · answered by Veets 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Adultery is defined as "sex with a married person", not "sex outside of marriage".
2006-07-25 07:55:34 · answer #9 · answered by acgsk 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not, because sex is good, clean, and healthy. We are not created to be celebate. I have asked the same question but with an explaination of my perspective to see what others think. its quite interesting that we have followed traditions and not what God has said.
2006-07-25 07:56:29 · answer #10 · answered by AlwaysLaughing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is wrong to have sex before marrage because that is one of God Commandments which alot of people go against it. Also that is commiting aldultery....
2006-07-25 07:54:24 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋