If you were madly in love with someone,and gave your 100% to this person...Turns out she leaves you for someone or not leave you but trys to become better friends with someone else and you find out and ask her...and she says i am not sure,..... ?
You say well i am sorry,i dont think i can be with you anymore,i respect your choice ,so from now on we will go diffrent ways...
After two days she calls you and accidently calls you by other persons name.... you get pissed off and hang up saying you shoud\ld be ashamed of yourself and tell her not to call you because she has found her way to happiness yet left you all alone now dont call or text because you want to get over her.
After a week she start text messaging you again,You dont reply back this time...She is calling you now,and talks like nothing ever happened
NOw keep in mind you knew this girl for more then one Year and were there for her bad times and she was in yours...
What would you do? and are you doing the right thing?
2006-07-25 07:48:48 · 12 answers · asked by Khan 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
same thing happened to me but after 10 years. You look at yourself in the mirror and remind yourself that happiness is withing you.
No one can make you happy but yourself first. She is using you and playing with your feelings because in a way you are allowing her to do so. Stop this codependency by not returning her calls, change your phone number and start going to places or doing things that are good for you...
Remember that a relationship is one you can learn from the other person, she is inspiring and committed.
I am now married and with a kid and never been happier...
2006-07-25 07:56:25 · answer #1 · answered by hmc121667 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did the right thing. She is using you and no one should be treated like that. tell her that you don't want her calling again and that it's over. You need to move on as much as it hurts you have to
2006-07-25 14:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by AJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She want to have her cake n eat it, let her know it not like that. and please move on n leave her sorry ***. She might be getting bore now with her next man but as a new challenge come along she is gone again... Don't let her play u.
2006-07-25 15:07:38 · answer #3 · answered by symarcia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't buy into it all. I would just push her away and get another girl and tell her about it. She's playing games and you shouldn't make her feel good inside by playing into it.
2006-07-25 14:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by Mama R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hm....it's a game for sure....u have to stop talking to her...not picking up the phone.....tho it can make a new reaction that she will find smth else to do......don't give up......and for the future....never give a 100%....leave smth for urself.....bcs we r just human beings in this world.....and we r not perfect at all.....respect urself.....then other ppl will do the same about u....
2006-07-25 14:59:05 · answer #5 · answered by El 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I WOULD talk to her, I don't mean just talk like everything is ok. I mean, tell her how you feel, ask her how she feels, ect. If she just want's to 'Act', like nothing happened, then so be it, and move on.
2006-07-25 14:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by PeachyFixation 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is mind games. stop talking to her altogether. It is easier said than done I know from experience.
2006-07-25 14:52:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Playing games don't fall for it..
2006-07-25 14:52:32 · answer #8 · answered by lambgroni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have her arrested for harassment
2006-07-25 14:54:23 · answer #9 · answered by dadgonewild 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously she doesn't care about you at all. Move on.
2006-07-25 14:51:17 · answer #10 · answered by Pinolera 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋