my step mothers baby sits some 10 kidas at a time and they all like me! all but one any way. the one that that disslkikes me is just terrified of me for some reasion. even time she sees me she runs to her older brother who is about 6 and hides her head in his shoulder. she is the only kid that acts this way to me and i have no idea why. i did nothing to her and i have tries a few times to be nice to her but she juts starts to cry and wants her mother. she acts as if i am the devil! could she just not like older men? i am 20 so maby her father hurts her and sense i would think i am about his age maby she thinks i will hurt her too. i do not know. the only thing i do know is that the first time she saw me is when i was out sade a bout a month ago and i was playing with all the older boys (4yearolds to 12 year olds) and i was throwing all of them like ragdolls (i made sure i was not hurting tham)
i am too lazy to day to run this through spell chech so deal with it.
i think she is 3
2006-07-25 07:39:59 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
shes the only kid i have ever met thats scared to death of me.
2006-07-25 07:44:30 · update #1
cuz she is her own self and maybe shes different...
2006-07-25 07:42:51 · answer #1 · answered by mazzygirl83 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
It's presumptious to assume she was abused.
Why not ask the mother? Or have your mother ask about the little girl? Your mother would probably better handle the questioning.
Also...does she have other siblings? Maybe a school yard bully looks like you, and she therefore assumes you're related? Perhaps she's a shy girl. In general, shy children are unnerved by the opposite gender.
I think finding out directly from the mom, making her aware of how the girl behaves, will help you get to the bottom of this.
2006-07-25 07:46:08 · answer #2 · answered by lookdontlook 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think that maybe a man in her life has hurt her in some way...If it were that she is just a different kid, she would act like that toward other people as well and not just you. Just give her time. it may be a phase and then again, it may not. Only time can tell. Just dont try to force a friendship with her.
2006-07-25 08:09:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 23:21:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Often girls are afraid of men. It is possible she is afraid you will throw her into the air. Girls who do not have a father or have very little male contact experience very little physical play.
Or, she may consider hiding from you as a game.
Discuss your concerns with the child's mother.
2006-07-25 07:43:44 · answer #5 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guess is you are trying too hard - play hard to get - if she wants to play wth you she will - dont leave her out if you are playing with a group of kids but if she doesnt want to join in -dont take it personally. Remember kids and just like adults you cant be everyone's friend all the time.
2006-07-25 07:46:22 · answer #6 · answered by Vix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My niece was sexually abused by someone and he had dark eyes. I don't know who it was because it was someone her nasty mom was laid up with. Anyway, my husband has dark eyes and she is afraid of him. Every other kid loves him. She is 8 and can't get past it. So someone could have hurt her and you remind her of him. Just take it easy and don't push it. She will come around if she can. If you push it, it could really scare her.
2006-07-25 07:46:30 · answer #7 · answered by AfterThought 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes little girls don't like any men but dad and grandpa.
Don't take it personally.
She may just prefer grown up women and be shy around men.
I've even seen this with KG age kids.
2006-07-25 08:13:07 · answer #8 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my daughter has always liked people, and would go to anyone, except her aunt's boyfriend
he's a big guy, and he has facial hair, but he would be friendly to her and talk in a nice voice, so I don't know why she was wary of him
she wouldn't go near him, she would just stare at him
2006-07-25 07:49:43 · answer #9 · answered by angelbaby 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe there is something about you that reminds her of someone who was mean to her. just leave her alone. maybe over time if she sees that you are nice to everyone she will feel better
2006-07-25 07:43:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was afraid of men because my father was never there and when he was there he hurt my mom.
2006-07-25 07:53:02 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋