how to tell if a girl is lying to u girls only plz?

Question

How do u ppl tell if ur loved is lying even if he/she is trying to protect u or he/she feels insurcue how should I approch the problem I can tell she not telling me everthing by the look in her eyes but how to I get her to feel sucure enough to tell me

Answer 1

she might not be telling you because she's afraid she would lose you. i'm not sure how you can get whatever it is out of her. just tell her that u want to know and that you will be there for her. good luck

Answer 2

She might feel strongly for you but as you menchoned, the security isnt really there. She may love you but is not sure about the future since girls always think of marriage in a love relationship.
A way to make her feel secure is to let her know that she is the only one not by words but the way you act around her and other girls... even when she is not around.
Look at her as not only a girlfriend but a friend. Earning her feeling of security really takes time.

Answer 3

Wow!! This always happens!! but jus let her know that you love her and that no matter what it is your love for her will not decrease!! And remind her that a strong and healthy relationship is built on communication, honest, and trust!! i mean and if she still doesn't want to tell you jus let her think about it for a while and don't mention it..try to act like u let it go...it will drive her crazy holding it in and she eventually will tell you but it will be in a month or less so don't worry!! It also depends on how long u have been together...she should be comfortable with telling you anything you want to know...even things like her period is about to come on or stuff like that!!! but if ya'll jus started then maybe she's not comfortable talkin to you yet!!!

Answer 4

Well Alot of girls wont look u in the eye when their lieing in my case ppl can tell when im lieing cus my eyes will water and they can just tell from looking me in the eyes.. and if they dont act like they normally would then their probably lieing..

Answer 5

This is true for all people, not just girls:

If a person is looking to the left while telling you something, he or she is probably lying [or "frabricating"]. If they are looking to the right, it is much more likely that they are telling the truth.

If they are looking you straight in the eye, it can go either way.

Answer 6

Read up on body language. There is something about looking away to the left, I think, that often means a person is lying.

Answer 7

u can tell by her actions. Her actions will start to change, either she can be excited for no reason or just seems like she is always day dreaming, thinking about stuff that doesnt include you, sometimes she might get too quiet around you, not doing what she does normally.

Answer 8

Honestly, if you give her time and a chance to figure out how she wants to tell you, she'll get comfertable enough to trust you with it. Right now she might not trust how she will react to your reaction. If it's something personal, sometimes we will look for the dream reaction to save us from the darkness.

Answer 9

You should tell her that she can always tell you anything no matter how it may hurt you. Do it in a caring way and not forceful. Then tell her that you are always there to talk if she needs to tell you anything. And then you probably have to do the hardest thing....be patient.

Answer 10

Hell that should be an easy answer for you. The same way we tell you guys are lying....can't make eye contact, fidgity, over-talking...all of that. We observe, too, you know.