theres i girl i really like, im almost 17, so is she. how do i get her to like me, or tell if she does??

Question

i cant tell if she likes me or not, shes very confusing cause 1 minute she seems like she does, then the next she doesnt. i wanna know how to tell if she does, and what to do, or waht NOT to do to get her to like me back.

she also has been pretty close friends with me for more than a year now. i just dont want this to make our friendship awkward if she says no.

Answer 1

Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!

Answer 2

You're probably picking up the on-again/off-again signal because that's what going on in her head. It's sometimes a day-to-day battle for a girl to decide if she likes a guy. One day he's sweet and quoting poetry, the next, he's acting like an immature guy. So it goes back and forth.

If you don't feel comfortable confronting her and telling her you like her outright, try becoming her friend first. Ask her how she is, etc. Most times, after not too long, a girl will definitely be crushing on you or is definitely not interested. But remember to be yourself! You don't want her liking you or not liking because you're trying to be someone else.

Answer 3

Tell her you like her! Buy her something sweet, like a flower. Very simple, dont get anything big youll scare her away. And just tell her what you like about her. Make her laugh. If she doesnt like you now, she will after you do something sweet for her.
Good Luck!