I'm not shy when I get to talking with a girl. However, I never know what to say to break the ice or begin the conversation with a girl that I've never met before. I see many pretty girls out at the ski hill, the bar or at school. I don't want to use a cheezy pick up line, I want to be respectfull and just talk with her to get to know her. I don't even know if I like her yet. At this point she's just a pretty girl and Im not ready to do some big "Top Gun" style approach. What should I say??
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2006-07-25 07:02:56 · 15 answers · asked by Adam H 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A good way to open up a conversation is to talk about something that you both have in common. If you met them at the ski hill, talk about skiing. If you met them at school, talk about different classes and career goals. I wouldn't waste my time trying to meet girls at bars though. Good luck!
2006-07-25 07:07:33 · answer #1 · answered by Lola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-14 23:01:25 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Anything that could fall into the category of a "line' is just not a good idea. Be natural. Don't worry about what the first thing you said was. Just start talking. If there's any way that you can see something to give a genuine compliment about (That's a great laptop. I have one like it.) or ask a question about (Is that book any good? I was thinking about reading it.), go with that. But only if it's genuine.
2006-07-25 07:11:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rvn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be honest, say hi, introduce yourself, ask her name and if you want, ask her more about herself. Tell her you think she seems like she has a pretty cool personality and that you were wondering if she would like to go out somewhere (like to dinner or for coffee) dont go to the movies because that gives you no opportunity to get to know each other.
If she turns you down, ask her if she is sure. If she turns you down again just smile and say "ok, thank you for your time" and walk away.
If she accepts you, then you need to plan out arrangements and transfer information. If she looks busy then ask if you can call later to set up arrangements and that you are late for something. Not only does that give her a sense of mystery, but it can give you some time to plan and groom.
*You shouldnt hit on a woman at the same place in one day
2006-07-25 07:16:48 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use the same lines you use when you approach your original guy friends. Or ask a friend of yours to soften the ice and make friends with the girl so that he can introduce you. Try gathering up your courage and "accidently" bump into her or something and say sorry over an dover again and then just tell her your name.
2006-07-25 07:07:13 · answer #5 · answered by lustful_essence 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you see her, and she sees you too, smile, make a peace sign to her. If she smiles, waves back at you, it means she's cool. If you end up sitting next to her, say "Hi, how's your day?"...of course that's the best way to start a conversation with anyone. First time talking to someone you like, never go too deep into your personal life but ask her about her interests, what she likes, what she do. If at school, ask her classes, major and stuff related. Don't pretend to be cool, just BE YOURSELF!!!
2006-07-25 07:08:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What i think you should say when approaching a lady is first say excuse me my name is ( your name), may i say what is your name. Then ask her how is she doing this evening. When she response tell her she looks really nice today and if she wouldn't mind can you call she sometime so you can get to know her better. In doing all of this she would respect you for how you approached her and how you respected her.
2006-07-25 07:30:30 · answer #7 · answered by brittani_jasonee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it from me its and oldie but it works be yourself. Women are like Bats with with really good sonar if the detect that your are pretending or not being who you really are it will blow the operation. Just introduce yourself and asking how she is doing. From there find out her interest and slide in a compliment here and there. You should do just fine just remember to keep it natural
2006-07-25 07:08:49 · answer #8 · answered by omenus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-25 07:05:22 · answer #9 · answered by Juan Valdez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say "hello" or "talk about the weather" and you take it from there brother. Don't try to be who you're not!
2006-07-25 07:06:50 · answer #10 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋