i know it's common but i have emotional problms like i've been asked out but always say no. don't know why though.
2006-07-25 07:00:29 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
take ur time... u r damn too young.
2006-07-25 07:02:34 · answer #1 · answered by still breathing 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't rush into a relationship, meet a guy that will take you for who you are, and respect you. Don't think you will never find someone because you will. You maybe afraid of rejection and that is not uncommon, been there myself. At 15, some girls date and others wait until they get older like 17 or 18. The best advice I can give you is to be yourself and don't change just because others think you should. You make the calls on who you date . So take your time. It will be worth it in the long run.
2006-07-25 07:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you're fine. One of my best friends didn't start dating until after she was in college, and now she's got guys lined waiting for her.
But... if you'd like to date but aren't sure that you want to be 1-on-1 with a guy, how about going out in groups or double dating? Pick a public place like an ice cream shop or a lake... someplace you walk to. Get a friend and her boyfriend to come along. If it's outdoors, you and your guy can hang out with your friends or go off on your own. If it works out, great, and if it doesn't then you have other people to talk to. You can hold hands, give back rubs... or not touch him at all. Your choice.
You don't HAVE to date. But if you want you, then try it. You've got the offers, and they're not going to dry up. Figure that you can wait until something appeals to you.
2006-07-25 07:09:49 · answer #3 · answered by barnett811 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is smart for you not to date guys at that age. I am older now but when I was 15 I wasn't mature enough to take care of a girl in a dating relationship. You might find a great guy and then it shouldn't be a problem accepting a date from him but don't feel bad about not wanting to date just anyone. I am very proud of you for having standards. If it is not about standards and you truly are just scared to date now I wouldn't worry about it either because like I said earlier most guys aren't mature enough to date and the dating world can be very scary and dangerous.
2006-07-25 07:05:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have definitely been there! No need to worry, actually youre probably just being smart. When you meet a guy that you would really be compatible with... youll know, and then youll understand why it didnt feel right with anyone else! You just dont get "that" feeling with anybody, and youll know it when you do. Wait it out, and itll be worth it. My first serious boyfriend asked me out in eleventh grade (I was more of a late bloomer than you) and weve been together for four years! Youll know it when its right! <3
2006-07-25 07:05:18 · answer #5 · answered by Stacy Lynn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait till your 17, if it doesn't feel good don't do it. You may not have a good feeling about him. You still are young & if you have emotional problems find a counsler to talk, one that makes you feel comfortable . Find someone that does/talk about this as a job. A teen counsler for example. Be youself, don't worry about what others think of you, THEY will come & go but you will be with youself for a LIFETIME. Live your life & have fun. Hope this helps.
2006-07-25 07:30:18 · answer #6 · answered by email dummy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your afraid of what could happen....maybe your afraid of the possibility of someone truly loving you. If you've never had a boyfriend that means you've probably never let your guard down and were able to open up to a guy...but maybe you have. Yes if you do end up having a boyfriend you may get hurt but i think you need to be hurt in order to find someone who loves you and who will never hurt you....i know i have been hurt but now I'm in a great relationship with a great person and he loves me for me and he won't hurt me.Good luck!
2006-07-25 07:06:44 · answer #7 · answered by ~gRiNgA~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds as though you are insecure and do not want to get hurt and therefore you always say no. Instead of saying no the next time, you should say yes and go out w/a group of friends instead of by yourself until you get more comfortable w/the going out with the guy by yourself.
2006-07-25 07:04:42 · answer #8 · answered by RainCloud 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it. Next time you get asked out say yes, stupid. So you don't crying to us. Sorry for being so harsh but it don't use emotional problems as an excuse. You're just shy. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure that out.
2006-07-25 07:06:07 · answer #9 · answered by The Marionette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, here's a suggestion: why don't you get up from your computer and go outside and make some friends- guy friends. It's better to befriend a person first, that way you relationship will be a lot better because you will have already known each other.
2006-07-25 07:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Twilight Elf 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did not have a boyfriend until i was 18 and i am in love now. i know u hear u r still young a lot but wait it out and it will come the right way. i now have tons of guys hitting on me but i dont like it. its just the age you are men are not mature eniough yet. be patient focus on your life school work etc. and wait .
2006-07-25 07:04:12 · answer #11 · answered by mawnik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋