Time will heal. In time you will be able to remember your beloved pet with less tears and more smiles. There is nothing wrong about grieving for a pet that has died. Grief is normal. When my Sunshine died I cried or two weeks but it gradually got easier and easier. God bless
2006-07-25 07:00:19
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answered by Stick to Pet Rocks 7
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I don't know if you ever can. I still miss a dog that died 25 years ago, but the pain is less and I can remember how smart and funny she was, and all the good memories now. Denying or fighting your grief doesn't help. You should go ahead and let yourself be very sad, and acknowledge how much you valued your companion's unconditional love and acceptance. Then, after awhile, your sadness won't demand your full attention any more and you will be able to get on with your life. Spending time with your dog has changed you forever, and you are probably better for it, so remember your friend with affection and gratitude for the times you shared. This is your tribute. The hardest part of having a dog is that they live so fully all the time that they do not live as long as humans, so we will spend our lives saying farewell to our best friends. You will survive this. My best wishes and sympathy go out to you.
2006-07-25 07:08:31
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answered by dig4words 3
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my dog a Maremma sheepdog huge and white died a few years ago on my lap after an illness. I was devastated as she had been with me for 12 years through thick and thin and always loyal.
You just have to mourn as you would a family member and remember the good times you had and that the dog had a good life because you are obviously a kind person and i am sure a good owner and friend to your dog.
All i can say it gets easier as the days pass by, until you can look at there picture and smile remebering all the good times.
I waited a year and i now have a border collie but i still carry a picture of "Bella" in my wallet.
Try to smile and good luck
2006-07-25 07:03:04
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answered by Anonymous
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I am an older person, and my cat just died about a month ago. She was with me for 18 years. I miss her very much and still get tears in my eyes when I think about how much I miss her.
I don't think that there is a way to just "get over" the loss of a pet. If someone can do that, I don't think they really loved their pet a lot. In my life, our pets were always part of the family and loved.
I think everyone needs to go through the grieving period (which will be longer for some than others) and then with time you will be able to think back and enjoy the memories of your pet's life with you without the pain of the loss. It will take time, but eventually you will.
I believe that animals have souls and that there is a place they go when they die just like people. God is taking care of our pets until we get there to do it again.
2006-07-25 07:13:52
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answered by 8 In the corner 6
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I'm sorry to hear that your dog died. Time heals everything. Give it some time. Talk about it to anyone who will listen. People mourn in different ways. Some can go right out the same day and get another dog. Some have to wait for 6 months to a years before they can. Neither way is wrong, so it is up to you to choose. Good luck, and again I'm sorry.
2006-07-25 07:00:25
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answered by venus 3
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You can't really get over a dog's death. Just know that they are happy up in Dog Heaven where they never run out of toys and dog treats!
2006-07-25 06:58:17
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answered by brewers_babe49 2
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It is heartbreaking when you lose a dog/pet as you grow attached to them and they give you so much love and understanding. My dog passed away years ago and it broke my heart, he was my little buddy I would take him everywhere with me. I got another dog soon afterwards as I thought I could replace my old dog but it didn't work out, so please leave it for a while before you get new dog/pet, the grieving does get easier over time. Just think your dog is in doggy heaven and is having a great time running through fields and chasing cats.
2006-07-25 07:13:31
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answered by claire j 1
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The only way to get over the death of a friend is to give it time. Loss takes time -- you have to fill the void with other stuff. Friends, family, fun... talk about the things you like about your dog and do your best to move forward. I'm sorry to hear about you loss.
2006-07-25 07:00:32
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answered by b 3
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Time heals a broken heart. It will get alittle easier as time goes by. I'm sorry 2 hear about ur loss and everyone is different in getting another dog--some sooner than others. That may help but u will feel better soon.
2006-07-25 12:01:17
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answered by I♥myPitbulls 4
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You never fully get past the pain of losing a beloved pet. I still hurt for my cat who died in January. Some of the things I did, and this may or may not work for you, are writing my memories of him down and laughing at the things we did together, a few months after his death I adopted another animal, not to replace him, but to help me have a reason to smile. I talked about him all the time, I made sure everyone knew he was an amazing creature who brought me joy. I'm sorry to hear of your loss. It's never easy, but I hope this helps.
2006-07-25 07:00:59
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answered by Mama23Girls 6
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time is the only thing that decreases the pain of your loss.
this may sound cruel and traitorous to your sweet friend, but a puppy has always been the best medicine for a grieving heart.
some think a puppy of the same breed is not a good choice, but i disagree.
any breed you choose should be fine.
the best choice is to help an orphaned dog get a loving home.
the humane society has many sweet animals who need a home pretty badly.
good luck and sorry for your loss
2006-07-25 06:59:59
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answered by danolyoko 1
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