i found out my girls been cheating on me yesterday i wanna know why girls or guys cheat whats the point
2006-07-25 06:51:59 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Other - Health
i would love to have a nice boy, i wouldn't never cheat on anybody
that girl cheated b/c she is very very immature
2006-07-25 06:54:41 · answer #1 · answered by DivaStar 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think they do it because the "grass is always greener on the other side." There is no good reason for cheating. She will be sorry when she realizes what she lost. I've had it done to me and I am sorry for what you are going through. It's something I would never do because I have morals and I know how it feels and would never want to inflict that pain on another person. The only reason I can think of is maybe someone cheated on her once and she is taking it out on you? I don't know anything about her but that is the only reason I can think as to why someone would do that.
2006-07-25 06:56:54 · answer #2 · answered by dmc81076 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey your cheating partner is one of the minority, try not to lose faith in all women, easy said than done i know but most of us including myself are faith full to partners we genuinely and truly love, if a partner is truly in love then they don't cheat, shes no good and I'm so sorry for the pain and anger you must be feeling, if she says sorry to you then in truth the only thing shes sorry about is the fact she got caught, if she asks for forgiveness, could you really forgive even in the long term?. There is no point in cheating, ive never understood it myself, why don't they just let the person go before going with anyone else, the only conclusion Ive ever come up with is some people are players, they feed of the attention and confidence boost it gives. This is NOT your fault. x
2006-07-25 07:16:58 · answer #3 · answered by odette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People cheat for many reasons. The most prevailent in my opinion is personal gratification. People always look out for themselves, often with disregard to others. Another would be a relationship that is difficult to get out of. if one partner is abusive, it may be safer to go behind his/her back than to confront or end a relationship. another is special circumstances. If your significant other is in a coma for 2 years, you will have needs and may want to act upon them (or be faithful, but thats up to the person). what if you are in a relationship that you know is going downhill and about to end, and you see an opportunity for a better relationship, and dont have the time or cant get ahold of your current partner? this would depend on the couple's definition of cheating, which is another problem. some people consider a kiss cheating, while others dont consider sex cheating as long as theres permission. couples should define their expectations to each other on this topic before becoming serious. Other people do it for the danger of getting caught, the feeling of doing something wrong excites them. Still others dont know that they are not satisfied in their relationships until someone else comes onto them and makes them feel special. A desire to still be with the original partner and a desire not to hurt them along with the desire to be with the person who makes them feel special makes people dishonest and cheaters.
The one excuse that bothers me is the "I was drunk" line. That cannot be considered an excuse because i would hold anyone accountable for their actions, and if they know they cant control themselves then they a) shouldnt get drunk to the point of losing control, or b) shouldnt get drunk without their partner or a friend around to stop them from being stupid
I would never cheat. I have never cheated and will never cheat. I have been cheated on in the past and it is one of the most painful things that could happen to someone, especially if you care about the person that does it to you. i would not wish that feeling on my worst enemy.
Just because i feel that some situations could be justified doesnt mean i will ever do it. btw i am one of those people who feels that kissing is cheating, but when i got cheated on it was full blown sex. It really messes people up, and even to this day its still hard to trust girls. I have an amazing one now that i know i can trust, but deep down the thought of it will never go away. people should consider what it will do to the other person before deciding to do it
2006-07-25 06:54:40 · answer #4 · answered by sexydp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To satisfy a need that they feel is unfilled. They are losers who don't know the meaning of hard work or perserverance and feel like bringing someone else into the mix is going to magically make things better in thier life. When what ends up happening is they screw up a good thing. DO NOT TAKE HER BACK!!! She made her bed, now let her sleep in it. Cheaters are the lowest form of scum this world has produced.
2006-07-25 06:56:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if that's your real picture....I sure as hell won't have cheated on you!!!!
Maybe its your personality? That's the #1 reason why people cheat. If they aren't getting enough attention or you're just being an asshole then she's gonna cheat.
Remember...looks aren't everything. Although you are HOT!!!
2006-07-25 06:57:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Though your not married..this site has some interesting information on the psychology behind why men and women cheat...
Funny enough it's for completely different reasons..
Sorry bro, been there. Walked into my ex-wife and some guy in MY house, in MY bed...
2006-07-25 06:57:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes It's hard to verbalize how we feel inside and you guys never really wanna talk about whats going on in the relationship. So when reach out to someone who seems to take interest in how we are feeling at the moment we let our guards down and things begin to happen.
2006-07-25 06:56:35 · answer #8 · answered by beatyful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's one painful experience. I think it is also unexcusable but forgivable. I am not recommending getting back together with a person who cheated before. I think if he/she can do it once, it CAN happen again.
People cheat maybe because they are unsatisfied with who or what hey have currently sometimes its because they are selfish. Personal gratification we call it or just because they can.
And yes, KISSING IS CHEATING!!
Good Luck to you buddy.
2006-07-25 07:05:00 · answer #9 · answered by ♠ENIGMA™ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I knew.......I think that there is something missing that causes them to cheat and they think they are getting it from whomever they are cheating with.....I wish people would just break up with the person before they cheat, its just so painful...I am so sorry this happened to you.
2006-07-25 06:55:34 · answer #10 · answered by Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋