i have a very close friend,we're at the same university,i really dig her but i dunno how to go abut tellin' her help me please!!
2006-07-25 06:48:53 · 24 answers · asked by SLICK4YOU 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you need to tell her before its to late and someonelse comes along, u never know what could happen between u two until u say something..
2006-07-25 06:52:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her to take a walk with you, buy a couple of cokes and find a quiet place in a park somewhere and just tell her. Tell her you really value your friendship and you would like to take it a step further and start dating and see where this leads us. Then if she isn't as interested as you, she won't feel as embarassed as if you were in a restaurant or someplace where you would have to finish a meal or a movie etc. This way if she needs to leave as you don't feel the relationship can continue just as a friendship, she can.
2006-07-25 14:00:23 · answer #2 · answered by roncarolhillsstupid 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to the mall, buy some cute little sunglasses and put them in a cute bag or wrapping and enclose a note that says, "I'm looking at you differently now". Or get a little night-light or table lamp and enclose a note that says, "I see you in a whole new light". There are lots of cute ways that will show your sensitive side. If I think of more, I will let you know.
2006-07-25 13:54:39 · answer #3 · answered by Dear Mall Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know bro on this one, I had the same question... Just go with your gut feeling...... If you feel that you have to know if she cares about you the same then you have to tell her... And also not to ruin things but sometimes by telling them will distance the friendship if she just wants to be your friend. Trust me bud, I had it happen to me and one of close girl friends....
2006-07-25 13:54:08 · answer #4 · answered by Bobby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find the right time and tell her. If u guys go to the movies together as friends one night, u could tell her then. Good Luck!:)
2006-07-25 13:51:58 · answer #5 · answered by MADRA 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should hint around it... like just bring up something like "what if WE were together?" or something like that. make it a joke at first to see what she thinks about it. she might not admit that shes into you, but you will be able to tell if there is any chance at all. then a couple days later.... just lay it on her. im sure it wont hurt your friendship.... so give it a try. :-)
2006-07-25 13:53:45 · answer #6 · answered by lisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ya u should. Be suddal bout it then come out an ask her if ya reallly good friends then she might be fellin u 2 yo'll neva know till u ask
2006-07-25 13:54:25 · answer #7 · answered by savedgirlp3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always best to tell someone youre into your true feelings. just go up and tell her, say somethin like "what do u think if we became more than friends?" sometimes it backfires and jepordizes the friendship, but u always have to be honest to everyone about your feelings. so dont hesitate, who knows u could become more than friends.
2006-07-25 13:52:59 · answer #8 · answered by sarah_gotdance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't go beating around the bush get to the point and tell her how you feel about her.
2006-07-25 15:01:56 · answer #9 · answered by goal01achiever 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you giving her clues that you like her. just suk it up and ask her on a date if she tells you no be nice about it suck it up and move on you can't get everything you want in life.
2006-07-25 13:53:24 · answer #10 · answered by dee-dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋