i think that this one guy is into me because he is always like flirting with me, playfully, not romanticly, really. he is like touching my leg and rubbing it and saying "you likey?" but he is in the in-crowd and he plays around like that all the time!
i like this guy too. but i dont know how to tell him that i like him, and how do you send signs?? plzzzz answer! im going into 7th grade!he is really sweet, and he thiks that all girls are beautiful in their own way! i am the only one that he does it to by the way!!
2006-07-25 06:46:53 · 18 answers · asked by Christina G ♥ 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just do it, then it will be over and you will know
2006-07-25 06:48:01 · answer #1 · answered by cirdellin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
7th grade boys don't always understand the signs that girls give them.
A lot of people wrote to you that you should "use your eyes" or "touch him back..." But a 7th grade boy is just as new to this as you are.
The best thing you can do is be very honest. Be direct and nice. Tell him that you really like him. Tell him why. Are you happy when you're around him? Is he funny? Do you like talking to him? Do you have interesting conversations? Tell him.
This is why I am saying this... when I was in 7th grade I really liked this one girl. We flirted all the time, had great laughs... but even though I made jokes and flirted, I was shy on the inside. All guys are, and I think that all girls are, too. I thought to myself, "there's no way she could like me like that... she's way too cool." She was doing all of the things that the other poster's are saying to do: tell him with your eyes, laugh at his jokes, make time to spend with him... But I didn't get it. And we never got together because neither of us ever said, "you know what? I really like spending time with you. Maybe we should hang out just the two of us sometime."
Everybody has a story like that. Some people are always that shy. But you don't have to be. It's always better to tell someone that you like him. Remember, no matter what he says, he'll be be flattered that someone liked him enough to tell him. Telling you, it's 100% true.
2006-07-25 14:02:34 · answer #2 · answered by barnett811 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
ok a guy answerer! woohoo
from a guys perspective....well me anyway, i would say to give him something, nothing big just somethng to make u stand out from the other girls. Like even just a cold soda or gatorade on a hot day can make this guy think...Damn I'm out here hot and this girl hooks me up with a soda! Damn she's cool, but watch out don't fall in to the friend catagory. A sports magazine is a good idea too or something he's interested in.
Anyway something that isn't trying to "buy" him like u are desperate, just a simple gester.
or i guess you can just look at him like the gals said! lol
I guess how to know a girl likes you.....is they look at you huh? lol damn no girls look at me what does that mean? lol
Take care, and good luck
2006-07-25 13:56:12 · answer #3 · answered by Joshua J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk out loud to your friends so he can hear you talking about him. Always smile when he approaches or sees you looking his way.
Talk to his friends about how much you like him.
He'll get word of it and you will soon be together holding hands after school.
If all else fails ask him to a dance or sporting event. Guys are impressed when a woman goes after them. Especially the shy guys that just need to get a push in the right direction.
Don't be afraid to talk to your parents about liking this guy. Keep them informed and they will be more likely to support your ideas and feelings.
2006-07-25 13:55:30 · answer #4 · answered by Kamikazeâ?ºKid 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look him right in the eyes and smile. Also, find excuses to touch him, like put your hand on his shoulder or something. Also, use his name when you talk to him. Those signals should work, and if they don't, just tell him you like him! Remember that men are dense (I don't mean that to be insulting) I just mean they don't always see the obvious.
2006-07-25 13:48:02 · answer #5 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont waste your time. Guys arent very smart. We dont get signs or subtle hints. Youre better off just telling him.
2006-07-25 13:48:58 · answer #6 · answered by Ozone 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
*sigh* junior high relationships
Its easy, give them a hug. Hang out with them a lot. Just make them notice you. That's it. So simple.
remember this is only junior high.
2006-07-25 13:50:08 · answer #7 · answered by bedtime_ted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boys, guys, and men are absolutely terrible at getting hints. avoid all the frustration and just tell him.
2006-07-25 13:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by jessiebrenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-07-25 13:50:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
with me i just lety it all come out of mi mouth if i like sum1 ill just tell them even if they h8 me n i like them ill still tell them
2006-07-25 13:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by gremlin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just flirt with him and he would get the message
2006-07-25 13:52:07 · answer #11 · answered by KEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋