I met this girl about a month and a half ago. We were at the pool chilling and she has a great body so I started up a convo. She was reading and Anne Rand Book and I like her so thats hows that got going. So she gave me her number, but she was like I have a boyfriend. So I'm like whatever I'm just down to meet people and have a good time. So she said call her, my bday just past I called to invite her, she didn't come. I called again to invite her to another party she came and apologyized for not calling on my bday. I was coo. We hung out for like 30 min or so just talking and flirting my buddies are like she's into you but Im like she has a dude, Sunday she calls me and asks if she can come over and chill this week when she gets some time. Of course I was like yea, it seems like she likes me but I don't know she may still be with her dude. I want to ask but at the same time it's kind of fun not knowing. Plus I'm sooo laid back around her because I figure shes taken. Ladies your thouts
2006-07-25 06:37:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hear you ladies, Im not looking to help a girl cheat on a guy. I just done know until I'm confronted with the situation. Thanks though you were all cool.
2006-07-25 07:05:49 · update #1
it sounds like she is in to you, but at the same time its like having her cake and eating it too. Although if she has a boyfriend, then something is not totally being forfilled there otherwise she wouldn't be so in to the attention you are giving her. I understand not wanting to burst the bubble you guys have going by asking her where she stands right now, but you can feel her out a little more and ask her a little about the other guy, and if he cares that she is chillin with you????
It would just really suck to be led on as if you have a chance, only to be let down you know!
if i were you, keep being cool, don't be so "available" and try to find out where she stands in her relationship, and take it from there.
good luck! I hope it works out the way you want it too.
2006-07-25 06:46:48 · answer #1 · answered by natty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems like she likes you but the ball is your court. As long as you are alright with her having a guy in her life then everything will work out. Since you said that you already like her then you will have to control your feelings for her and not fall in love.
2006-07-25 06:48:06 · answer #2 · answered by China B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she starts fooling around with you, you'll know shes into you, but as far as long term relationships... Just remember, if she cheats on her man with you, She's gonna cheat on you with a new man!! I believe people can change, and maybe she wont, but MOST likely she will. Humans are creatures of Habit. Good Luck.
2006-07-25 06:41:36 · answer #3 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you shld just take things cool and play her game without ur heart. if you get too involved a time would come she mite tell you she cant leave her boyfriend. never get emotionally involvedwith people who are already hooked. you could get ur heart broken and that is from experience.
2006-07-25 06:55:09 · answer #4 · answered by babynurse 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's playing you Dude.
2006-07-25 06:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by goodbye 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you like her so much then go for it ask her out or something
2006-07-25 06:42:46 · answer #6 · answered by Alex 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋