just tell him its not you its me you dont know what you want right now and you need time to think about it.
2006-07-25 06:37:48
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answered by Anonymous
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You'll be surprised how often i hear this question...If you don't want to be with him then you don't want to be with him and you need to be completely honest with him and tell him that - just say that it is not working out for whatever your truthful reason is - and that it cannot be worked out - because you simply do not want to be with him - believe me - you need to be cruel to be kind - do not lie to him or give him the standardized bull-sh*t because he does not want or need your sympathy - he will appreciate it much more if you just leave him and give him an honest straightforward answer as to why - then he can move on without being hung up on you or wondering what the hell he did wrong - If you do not want to be with him - then no relationship is better than a 'half-hearted' one - stop wasting his time and yours - hope this helps.
2006-07-25 13:38:50
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answered by Anonymous
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tell him straightaway..no point beating around the bush..in such cases , being honest helps...it may hurt a lill in the beginning but eventually u will realize tht it was the best thing to do under circumstances.i dont love him..so instead of ruining 2 lives, just give him ur answer straight away..it will save a lot of pain n heart ache later on...if u dont come forthright..u might end up haing each other...which will be worse!!!!!!!!!! so u go ahead n be honest.
2006-07-25 13:39:30
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answered by i'm so lost in love 1
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Here's How:
Get alone with him/her. Don't do this on the phone!
Relax. You are doing the right thing...s/he needs to know the truth.
Tell him/her that you feel this relationship on its current level needs to end.
Give him/her some time to let it sink in.
If s/he tries to convince you to give him/her another chance, listen to him/her.
Tell him/her that you've made up your mind.
Tell him/her at what level you would like to keep your relationship (acquaintences, never-seens, friends, etc).
Listen to his/her response. Respect his/her feelings about this new level
Let him/her go when s/he feels s/he needs to end the conversation.
Tips:
Be honest. Although breakups can be really hard on relationships, honesty will salvage any possible future friendship.
When you've realized that you are no longer interested in this person, let him/her know. Don't drag out a pointless relationship.
Look at this like taking off a band-aid. Would you rather do it fast or slow? Which one hurts more?
2006-07-25 13:38:50
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answered by lovemeacb4e 2
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Just be honest with him about it. If you don't love him and dont wanna be with him, just be honest and break up with him. Honesty is a big part of the realationship along with communication. In the long run, you will just be hurting yourself and him. Maybe you can still be friends, but if you dont tell him then your realtionship will just be a lie.
2006-07-25 13:39:02
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answered by tashasnyder2003 2
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Sit down with him and just tell him how you really feel....Dont do it ova the phone or through a text.....be a women and tell him to his face....I will get ova it but you shouldnt stay with someone that you dont love or dont want to be with anymore
2006-07-25 13:38:17
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answered by pink_purple_wiu 1
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Here's a suggestion: Open your mouth, and say:
"I don't wonna be with you anymore"
2006-07-25 13:37:38
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answered by whabtbob 6
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Just tell him that you need to take a break and that you think that this relationship will not go any further.
2006-07-25 13:37:43
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answered by Anonymous
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3 some with his 2 best friends that always does the trick!!
2006-07-25 13:36:28
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answered by slave0fgwar 2
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tell him that you dont' love him.
If you tell him some other bull, it might come back to you and hit you back. Because he can be your friend's friend's cousin. or whatever.
then you chances of getting another guy gets slim.
2006-07-25 13:37:22
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answered by bedtime_ted 2
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