my ex and i started talking a few weeks ago, and things were ok we were friends. Though last nite, we were talking, and he said he wanted me back. I have a boyfriend, n he wanted me to dump him for him.
We broke up before because he had cheated on me four times.
Then later in the night, he said he was seeing someone and he was sorry. I was so mad, why would we want me back if he was with someone else?? I think he has a cheating problem lol but... i asked him why
He said that i did things he didnt like.. i still dont understand why he would ask me out wen hes with another girl??
WHY WOULD HE DO THAT??
please help
2006-07-25 06:30:22 · 3 answers · asked by GC_RiotGrl_879 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hmm. To be brutal about it, does it make any difference WHY he does what he does? I know that's the first question we ask ourselves. What it says to me is that you are looking to figure out what YOU did to "make" him cheat on you. Another way of saying it is that you are taking responsibility for his actions. He's lying through his teeth if he says that he cheated because you did things he didn't like. BS!!
For whatever reason he cheats, remember that the best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. Without tremendous effort, good help, and time, it is very difficult for a person to change their pattern of behavior.
(He probably feels that he is unlovable, unworthy, and useless deep down inside. YOU can't fix it. He can but see the above paragraph.)
2006-07-25 06:40:19 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont know why guys do this he is obviously very imature and is not ready for a commited relationship so the best thing you can do is respect yourself and go on and find someone else that will give you the love and respect that you want and need he is looking and thinking about himself and the sex if he will cheat on you once and you said he has cheated on you 4 times he obviously isnt thinking of you and he is most certainly not thinking of these other girls either hes just thinking about his own gratifications and he is very selfish he needs time to growup so dont let him kid you into thinking that he wants just you because he will do it all over again i know i was in a simular relationship not to long ago and he never stoped but he lost one of the best things that ever happened and that was me
2006-07-25 06:42:47 · answer #2 · answered by readyhead42@yahoo.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hang up on that jerk. You have a boyfriend why are you talking to him anyway?
2006-07-25 06:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋