If girl has given you oral and made out and such and they say "your really good at everything you do" or "your really good. Do you do this alot?" Do they mean or are they just being nice?
2006-07-25 06:28:53 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my guess is they are letting you know they enjoy what you are doing.
2006-07-25 06:33:20 · answer #1 · answered by smiths j 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just expressing yourself. I don't think there's any negative side to it at all. Well, personally, if I say that to you, that's just what I feel for you. It's just a way of saying that you've done or you're doing a very good job. But I think the guy too must try and balance up the action by giving the gurl a very nice one too. And let the whole thing culminate in an very hot and rewardin intercourse where the two party will be satisfied and fulfilled.
2006-07-25 06:35:17 · answer #2 · answered by mykemejeje 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In the case of oral in particular it is hard to say since they'll throw out a compliment just because they are grateful and hope you'll do it again. As far as the compliments go, all you can really assume is that it means he's thinking he'd like to do that again.
As far as whether or not you 'do it a lot', then yeah they are trying to figure out if you are promiscuous. Unfortunately a lot of men hold a ridiculous double-standard of feeling like guys can spread themselves around as much as they want but women have to be as close to virginal as possible - yet skilled like they've been at it forever. Keep your answer to that ambiguous like, "Yeah I've done it before." If you are 'rather experienced' and you really like the guy you'll have to be honest eventually. Until then just keep him guessing.
2006-07-25 06:39:53 · answer #3 · answered by du_robot 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Technically it could be called a probing statement to find out if you have been around a lot and your reputation hasn't caught up with you. If you are performing oral however I assure you, you will know when you have done a good job. If your Jewish (No I am not being anti-semetic) you are already good at it. They are the best in bed period.
2006-07-25 06:34:01 · answer #4 · answered by raiderking69 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you saying the dude is asking the chick this?
The thing about being good would be a compliment, but the part about "Do you do this alot?" - he's suspicious that the chick gets around alot...
2006-07-25 06:32:48 · answer #5 · answered by a kinder, gentler me 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
they're just being nice, unfortunately. Most guys don't even think about a girls feeling until suck time that they are serious about settling down. Again this does'nt happen til later in their lives. Around 25 years of age.
2006-07-25 06:33:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One they think you're a little bit slutty simply asking you the question "Have you done this alot?" or they are asking a fair question and trying to fish for just how much experience and sexual partners you have had. As for you're really good at this "They want more!".
2006-07-25 06:31:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just like giving a dog a treat, we give women incentives for a job well done. This will keep the good work coming for later taskings dear....
2006-07-25 06:31:33 · answer #8 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the "your really good. Do you do this alot?" is just trying to dig for information on your history. the "your really good at everything you do" sounds like just a compliment, they are probably saying that so that you'll want to do it for them again.
2006-07-25 06:31:40 · answer #9 · answered by nick m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fact of the matter is that if you got that compliment, you better be proud of it. I have had many and only handed out that compliment like twice.
If they suck at it then i don't compliment and I definetly don't need it from them as much.
We senesitive about them teeth!
chomp! chomp! OOOuuuch!
Suck! Slurp! Yeaaaah!
2006-07-25 06:35:10 · answer #10 · answered by LordzAbove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls are really bad at it so if a guy finds a good girl then its great!
2006-07-25 06:32:33 · answer #11 · answered by NOVA50 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋