My girlfriend called me the other day. I was busy. She was apparently having sex with another female and wanted me to come over. I told her I was in the middle of something. Before I could finfish what I was saying she cussed me out and hung up on me.
Now we are supposed to be doing stuff like this together. She brings the girls we have fun. How come then, if I called her while having sex with a female I wanted her to be with , she would have a Fit and a Half about it. But does not see anything she did wrong. SHould I not be able to do the same things or is it differnt because of same sex for her and opposite sex for me. Plus how do I know this other girl will let me have sex with her , If I never met her before? What are your thoughts on this.
2006-07-25 06:21:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sorry about the incorrectly spelled words
2006-07-25 06:21:53 · update #1
its going down all right its just your fantasy in my world
2006-07-25 06:46:06 · update #2
I live in The SF Bay Area
its pretty cool here
2006-07-25 12:18:15 · update #3
She does not like other men only other girls
we tried that already unfortunately They cant replace me, so she says, so she sticks to girls
2006-07-25 12:20:46 · update #4
To test if it is really jealousy on her part, why don't you call her to come over, whilst you're having sex with another man? Now that would be this Bisexual's answer to your bisexual question! LOL!
Seriously though: Jealousy, Possessiveness, Control these are all things that can also participate when there is more than one other person involved in the bedroom (or kitchen table, shower, bath, back yard...). Talk it out with her, define the rules of your game and stick to them - or not but that'd be your loss too methinks.
2006-07-25 07:04:57 · answer #1 · answered by unclefrunk 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If only all men had it as good. Most men would not even be complaining. She does not want YOU to find the girl, then she feels like you have some physical or emotional attraction to the other chick. That's why SHE finds the girls.
I think you're crazy for engaging in such a relationship, but hey, to each his own. Would you still be OK with this whole thing if she were bringing in other men instead of females??
2006-07-25 13:47:12 · answer #2 · answered by Dee M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, bringing another woman into the relationship was sooo much fun but ruined the relationship I had with my bf. If you don't see the relationship with your girlfriend going anywhere then pursue the 3some, otherwise tell her that is not what you want.
2006-07-25 13:26:25 · answer #3 · answered by mdowney120 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For a start where are you b/c I want to move there were the girls are liking girls.. Hell yeah u should be able to dothe same thing, if she can call and want you to comeover to have a groupie then u can want the same thing, even if its not another woman..
2006-07-25 14:26:27 · answer #4 · answered by B W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like your not mature enough to go to this level of a relationship.
Frankly speaking, I think your living in a world of fantasy. I doubt this is really goin' down.
2006-07-25 13:42:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You two seriously need to sit down and have a good talk. If you are in a relationship with a bisexual, you two have to have terms, understanding, patience, compromise/agreement on very intimate aspects of your relationship.
2006-07-25 13:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by midnightdealer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
like lots of seemingly wonderful fantasies, they do not always workout in life. Things like jealousy, etc get in the way. Keep her happy, you have a good one
2006-07-25 13:54:53 · answer #7 · answered by aprilx4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your girlfriend is weird that sence you brought the girl you will like/ do like her better then your girlfriend. I think it is more of a territory think. You are hers and you should not be bringing other girls over....no mater what.
2006-07-25 13:59:20 · answer #8 · answered by zorroinmybed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like she is trying...and she had good intentions for this to happen the RIGHT way...Understand and be patient..i know thing will work for you and her.
2006-07-27 11:09:40 · answer #9 · answered by Daddys Princess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋