2006-07-25 06:20:45 · 27 answers · asked by Bertha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The same as when you aren't trying to get pregnant.
2006-07-25 06:23:28 · answer #1 · answered by Blunt Honesty 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can be hard keeping sex fun when you're trying to conceive
Be relaxed
This is the most important aspect. Relax and be at ease. Conceiving is very difficult if you think about it all the time and be tensed. Remember that love-making should be fun and you should enjoy it no matter this time you are having sex with a purpose. So the aim is to recapture the fun of making love, because the more relaxed you are, the more chance of making babies.
Think Positive
Try and stay positive. You aim is to conceive and so work towards it and think positive. The chances of getting pregnant in each cycle varies according to a wide range of factors, but perhaps the most important one is the woman's age. It will take a couple in their early twenties an average of five cycles to conceive. Women in their early thirties will get pregnant, on average, after nine cycles. One in ten couples will take more than a year to succeed in conceiving. So if you're 32 and you've been trying for six months without success then take comfort in the fact that the average woman your age takes nine cycles to conceive. So that gives you three months before you even reach average. So try to relax and think positively
Have Sex More Often
When your aim is to conceive it is important that you have to have sex regularly and you have to be spontaneous. Don't be under any kind of pressure and have sex when you want to not when you think you should if you are following any chart or advice of your Doctor. Be adventurous and think about different positions. Creativity can bring about excitement and passion into love-making and that is a good sign.
Take romantic breaks
Take a break from work and go out on weekends to some romantic place. Being together in a romantic place will ignite the passion and you might end up being pregnant. If you already have child drop the child at your mother's place and go on a second honeymoon. If you don't have children yet then romantic weekends are the best bet. You can have some morning sex which is the best time to conceive
2006-07-25 13:27:10 · answer #2 · answered by lovemeacb4e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't set out to get pregnant. I mean it can be the goal, but it's kind of like the love thing. Just leave it alone and when it's meant to happen, it will happen. If you have just getting pregnant on your mind it steals some of the romance from what you really should be thinking about. Oh and GOOD LUCK!
2006-07-25 13:26:13 · answer #3 · answered by str8tequila80 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its definitely not the same. You do it with all caution especially when you have been trying for long. You make love bearing in mind that its for a purpose, 'to get pregnant' even if you are not in the mood, but because it is time to conceive, you just have to do it. sometimes, you silently pray it works this time after the love making unlike when you are so turned on without any care in the world.
2006-07-25 13:29:11 · answer #4 · answered by Onyii A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Terrfying -- thinking about the next 18+ years I'd have to support the child, how even commited spouses can leave a wife with kids, and how raising a child in a broken home would suck. :-P
Pessimist I know, but it's a big scary step. I'd be far worried over the future consequences rather than wondering what physically might be any different.
2006-07-25 13:25:17 · answer #5 · answered by Funchy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boring, because when you are trying to get pregnant you take all the fun out of sex and make it more like work.
2006-07-25 13:26:12 · answer #6 · answered by navymilitarybrat76 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great if you're not going mental about it. Just remember to have fun at it, even if you're really wanting a great result. You don't ever want to look back on your lovemaking as "non eventful" because you didn't happen to get pregnant that month. Be sure your husband is loved, and that you are filled with love and happiness. If it's meant to happen, it will.
God bless you and your family!
2006-07-25 13:25:16 · answer #7 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the same as always until you get into scheduling sex. Then it's not fun anymore because you feel like you have to have sex. And sometimes it is too stressful for the guys and they have "performance" problems...
2006-07-25 13:23:32 · answer #8 · answered by CareBear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is the same as when you are not trying to get pregnant. Everything works the same.
2006-07-25 13:24:13 · answer #9 · answered by jeepfaust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Feels the same as when your not trying to get pregnant....LOL
2006-07-25 13:22:11 · answer #10 · answered by Karen 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋