It's not even half as bad at when guys have to, think about it. Me and pretty much every other guy in the world would like to know.
2006-07-25 06:11:43 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I bet it's because of your attitude. Don't include me in the "pretty much every other guy in the world" group. I don't think that girls hate doing it. I think that most like to please their partner, however people like you live on that one way street of receive and never give. Just listen to yourself - It's not even half as bad as when guys have to? Sounds like pleasing your partner is a burden to you - something gross that you have to do. If you don't like girls and their parts then go with giving oral to guys since you've already said that you think it's only half as bad.
If you take care to be enthusiastic about pleasing your partner, you will get the same in return. If you act the way you do, I'm sure it will always seem like girls hate it. They don't hate it - they just hate you.
2006-07-25 08:32:43 · answer #1 · answered by theswedishfish710 4 · 8⤊ 1⤋
Most don't mind if the guy bathes and avoids lots of garlic and onions. The most important parts are reciprocate the deed and don't shove it in but let her control the in and the out part, the guy needs to concentrate on some soft rubbing and fingering to keep her stimulated. There is a site in the UK that is going to start testing a pill that makes a guys c u m taste like sour apples so things may be looking up for us
2006-07-25 07:41:04 · answer #2 · answered by chuck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all giving a good bj is way more physical than cunnilingus. Your have to actually regulate your breathing because 1/2 the time theres a penis in your airway.No matter what oral sex is more intimate than actually sex so maybe your girls not that into you. Also bj's take learning and teaching and until your with a man who's a good teacher a lot of women are self conscious about quality.
2006-07-25 06:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What we would really like to know is how can we make girls like giving oral more. Top two excuses:a) the gag factor because it reaches the back of the throat and b) semen doesn't taste good because of some dietary factors like coffee drinking or eating too much salt.
And the only way to teach someone to give is to lead by example.
2006-07-25 06:18:44 · answer #4 · answered by anyone 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Let me give you some advice, we would like it a lot better if guys did not just lay there. Participate in some way but rubbing something on us such as softly on the back of our necks, and "other areas". But the biggest thing you can do is give us some warning for the big surprise so we can get out of the way! That part is just toooooooo disgusting!
2006-07-25 06:17:38 · answer #5 · answered by jEEzaBel 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Okay which reason should I start with?! One it is gross, and it is uncomfortable, and after awhile it starts to hurt your jaw and your mouth. We have to work really hard to get it how you like it. And believe me it IS WORK! Your mouth starts to get tired...and we just think...'damn i wish he would get off already!' Not to mention most guys want to go in your mouth...id like to know why they find that as such a turn on....but all i can say is GROSS!! its just nasty and then there is the gag reflex and if you di it to the wrong girl then you might end up with getting your own **** being spit back at you! Dont ask us, we may offer if we are in a mood but dont ask us, we dont like it, its mostly work and we get NOTHING out of it. Sorry.
2006-07-25 06:20:51 · answer #6 · answered by Heather T 2 · 10⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all we don't like the Idea of you males forcing it deeper making us choke and most women that I know don't swallow which means that there is a mess all over her face and or in her hair and it isn't all that great when that happens. Who said guys had to we don't put a gun to your head and tell you to do it so the HAVE TO thing doesn't work.
2006-07-25 06:17:03 · answer #7 · answered by midget19_73 1 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I don't think most girls hate it. I think most like it - but it's definitely a quid pro quo deal. You're not going to get it if you don't give it, buddy. And if you feel that going down on a chick is bad (which is lame; I think that it's fantastic), hold those feelings to yourself, or else you're DEFINITELY not going to get head.
2006-07-25 06:16:31 · answer #8 · answered by Juan Valdez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most girls you are with hate giving oral sex, you must be a selfish lover or not turning them on and asking for oral pleasure, if you turn her out properly, she will want to pleasure you and do it properly as well,
2006-07-25 06:15:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Because of guys who have this attitude that when they return the favor to a woman it's sooooo much work (yea right!) Or some guys have the attitude the girl *needs* to do it, and he won't stop pressuring her. It becomes all about his satisfaction.
2006-07-25 06:15:36 · answer #10 · answered by Funchy 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋