i fell in love with someone but he has a girlfriend, it became a big deal and he had to make a pick, i told him to stay with his girl friend. now its so hard to get over him, i remember him in almost everything. its been so hard for me, we were so much in love.
2006-07-25 06:06:59 · 26 answers · asked by babynurse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time is the only cure. In the mean time, be with your friends, watch movies, pig out, do manicures, the whole deal.
2006-07-25 06:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by me41987 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am suffering the same thing. Sweetness becomes bitterness. Memories are nothing but torture. Nothing works and no cure yet.
I do not like the answer that "why me!" since it does not make anything better. When thinking about she (he in your case) is happily together with another man (woman in your case), our hearts really breaks.
I just lie on bed, stare at the ceiling, and does not have energy to do anything. Checking emails, checking cellphone, or checking whatever might be related to her (him in your case) with even deeper sorrow. There is simply no more connection.
What should we do? I drove to the beach, swim fiercely, run till cannot catch my breath, shouted to the tidal waves. Those does not work.
I start to think the negative side of her, how un-fit that we might be, how bad temper she is, how less curves she has.....but it still doesn't work. I like all those from her, it's part of the love.
Ends up, I think we might need to live through it. Sorrow may be replaced with new or happy things happen in the future. The sorrow now may become memory. It might be a sweet one.
2006-07-25 13:50:49 · answer #2 · answered by It's amazing?! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True Love never ends so if you truly loved him the answer is never but you can pick up the pieces of your broken heart and go on God will put your heart back together for you and you may have heard this before it is better to have loved and lost then to have never loved at all you will Love again.
2006-07-25 13:14:55 · answer #3 · answered by jamnjims 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Got to ask: Why did you give him up? There is a specific reason, and you didn't mention it.
Move on with your life, honey. Know that song by Mariah Carey "Butterfly"? Listen to it. If he comes back it was meant to be, but move on. Leave town if you must. Change jobs, change your life, chase your dreams. If it's meant to be, great, if not, there is a REAL man out there for you that will NEVER feel like he has to CHOOSE between you and another.
Best of luck for a happy love life!
2006-07-25 13:09:58 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Saffire♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As someone else said, keep busy in the interim and let time do its work. Be patient with yourself, know you will probably have some bad days, but know that you have many good days ahead and that there will be a better boyfriend for you, too. In my experience, time really is the best medicine. Take care.
2006-07-25 13:14:42 · answer #5 · answered by topchris 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not sure when they say they truely in love. Well I think Love somone means U think the best for the that person, Doesnt means u need to own them.
Anyway THERES ONLY 1 CURE for you!!! is TIME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Let things pass and later u will think why am i so silly thinking abut that guy so much. Since theres billions people out there and i am pretty sure theres At least 1 better than him 100 times.
2006-07-25 13:11:57 · answer #6 · answered by ek_is_jou_pa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you tell him to stay with a girlfriend? Is she a wife?
All is fair in love and war. Unless there is a ring and a legal contract, go for it.
Call him right now and tell him you still want him, let him decide.
2006-07-25 13:10:54 · answer #7 · answered by ellieannah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't get over true love. It is a very important part of your life; your self. What you do is move on with your life. Eventually, you will find new love, hopefully with someone who cares for you alone.
2006-07-25 13:20:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You weren't that much in love if he had another girlfriend. As far as getting over him in 20 years you won't remember his name.
2006-07-25 13:08:29 · answer #9 · answered by AlphaFemale 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went out with a girl 10 years ago who broke up with me because she moved away. She then decided to go out with a guy who she grew up with and two weeks later he decided to be gay. She cryed as she called me and told me about it. I waited for her to say she wanted me back but it never happened. I still am not over her. But I'm getting there. You just have to try to move on. Consintrate on your life and finding who you are . It WILL work out.
2006-07-25 13:12:32 · answer #10 · answered by Adventures of Dave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋