Do Long distance Relationships worth any thing?

Question

do they worth any thing or ppl are just passing their time over internet, making fool of others?
Serious answers plz

sounds like every one has different opinions, but mostly they end badly

I think maintaining each other's Trust is the main thing in that.
If trust is broken once, every thing is lost.
Wat do u think?

splight seems to be in 1?

Answer 1

I disagree with most of the people that have already answered your question, I personally think a long distance relationship can work fine.

So long as one isn't paranoid that the other is taking the pi$s, making fools out of them or just passing their time while their online.

It cant be a one sided relationship though, both have to try a bit harder because of the obvious distance, but there's no reason why it shouldn't work. If you were to have a relationship or friendship with someone for example, that is in the army-it can still works out, even though they aren't about, because you build a level of trust, which means u don't doubt everything they say do you?

At the end of the day, if the other person is just passing their time over the Internet or if they are try to make fools of someone-would they honestly sit up half their night and wait for the person to go online to chat to if that was their intention?

Use your head!! They obviously value your friendship more than you do if this is the way you think they work?!

It may be 8am for some people but it could be 3 or 4am for the other person......would you sit up till then if you didnt enjoy the other persons company??

Answer 2

I have been involved in a relationship that started over the Internet last year. There were times it has been very frustrating, and times it has been very rewarding. Trust and open communication are the keys to having it work. I eventually moved closer to my sweetheart as I just couldn't stand being that far away from him. We still have issues to work out but the relationship seems pretty strong. I don't know how long the relationship will last, not something I could tell in a relationship that started in the traditional manner, but I know this is where I want to be right now. I know of only one other couple that actually were able to keep a working relationship that began over the Internet. They have been married several years now and are still happy.

Answer 3

I had one 2 years ago and it was a very long distance (US to Australia) relationship, it started on the net then I went and visited her, I was ready to move there, change to a whole new country. Needless to say it did NOT work out. I spent a lot of money, had heart ache, lost a lot of things that I had back in the states. my advice even taking it from someone that made the step only to get hurt, look for love close to home, long distance relationships only hurt you and can cost you many things you once had. lucky for me I had a dear friend talk me into coming home if it wasn't for her I am not sure what would have happened to me as a person. Thank you S.

Answer 4

I have met 27 people in real life that i met on the Internet first. One is still a good friend.
I have a 'long-distance girlfriend' in the Philippines who i have chatted with for almost 2 years, and will be traveling to meet her next month.
I have made a fool of myself, yes, as have some i have chatted with, but there is intimacy in the initial anonymity of the Internet that allows people to share themselves in ways they would not share if they met someone, or even if they worked with someone for a long time.

Answer 5

I always thought it was a good thing, and now I'm on My 3rd "relationship"
Long distance is always a shite, and the internet doesn't make it any better I think, because of the misconceptions of the personalities on the computer. Even if YOU didn't lie, that doesn't mean the OTHER person was truthful

Answer 6

I don't know that you're making a fool of anyone, but these relationships are not practical for obvious reasons. One of you will eventually have to make a move closer so your relationship can develop. Closer to home is best; and even closer to where you grew up is good, cause you already have culture and environment in common. Good Luck.

Answer 7

Nope, they 99% of the time end badly. To nurture a relationship it really needs to be done in person. Besides on the internet you can never tell who you are really talking too.

Answer 8

It all depends on the two people involved. I am sure that there are a few relationships out there that started on the internet and have even led to marriage.

Answer 9

If you truely love someone distance is nothing. I am in a long distance relationship. He lives in Chicago and I live in Florida

Answer 10

I for one think long distance Relationships are worth something.Because I'm in a long distance relationship. and its working out just fine.