So...this weekend i broke up wiht my bf of 2yr and 1/2. I'm suffering!.I'm going crazy!! I even crashed my car, because i wasn't paying attention!.I was thinking about him!!..This is NOT good!There is that temptation of calling him, but no!That can't happen!!.What should i do to make it easier for me to move on.(without dating other guys).
This is what happened....
We hadn't seen eachother in 2 weeks.So this weekend, WAS supposed to be great!I missed him sooo much!The night before, we got into a little argument and he hung up on me.Obviously i wasn't gonna call him back, right? HE hung up on me!.anyways..when i saw him the next day he completely ignores me!.I even had the decency to invite him to lunch.(keep in mind that i'm a very proud girl).He declined my offer and kept ignoring me the whole day.I felt like a had no bf.I was bumbed! Did he care?..NO!.but anywho..night comes and i'm sitting down with my friend talking, when he comes and tells me he needs to talk to me.I told him...
2006-07-25 06:06:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
(sorry this is long)
I told him i couldn't leave my friend alone so,we would have to talk later.but that,I wasn't gonna go look for him.It wouldn't be fair that he gets to ignore me the whole day and then I would have to go look for him.So,he got mad and left.figures! I sat there mad and heartbroken that the only time we get to spend together,he ignores me.This was it ladies!This was the last straw!It was the last time he would hurt me!What is the point in having a bf,when he doesn't act like one.right?Well,i wasn't gonna put up with it anymore.I was tired of fighting,tired of crying,tired of hurting.I know it doesn't seem like it was a big deal,but it's everything!everything he had ever put me through.When i decided it was official.I went to find him so i could tell him.
I told him. and he laughed.He said everything was my fault!And that i never loved him.And just made me feel like crap!well..he won!I felt like crap!I walked away choking back my tears.He let me go.Never called. HELP
2006-07-25 06:34:59 · update #1
hey girl weird thing same thing with me and my ex same amount of time everything.. I too even crashed my car I was so stressed.. no lie.. what I did was go home cuz we were living together.. and told him I am tried of trying so I am just going to walk away from this and start my own path.. you as a person and only you.. have the right to be happy and feel like a woman by your man.. men now a days have no clue as to how to handle a real independant woman with goals and a mind.. my suggestion to you.. move on a broken heart will mend it's self if you give it time,, a wound will never heal if you keep PICKING.. PUT A BANDAID ON AND CHART YOUR OWN COURSE.. YOU GO GIRL
2006-07-25 06:14:24 · answer #1 · answered by jazzmine2003 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him his space and you go out and have fun with some of your friends or family. I mean you need to go out and have some crazy fun.
When he sees that you can move on...I guarantee he'll rethink what he's doing.
He has you by the balls right now...he knows how emotionally dependent you are on him. So you have to distract yourself and go have fun.
If you see him in public give him a kind smile and keep walking. He's going to be so shocked because he'll think that your going to come up to him.
He'll call, come back and have a new found respect for you!
If he doesn't who care, find another one. There's to many men in the world for this one to take control over you!
2006-07-25 13:21:31 · answer #2 · answered by The Urban Princess 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey girl, I really think that if you still love him and arent looking for an excuse to dump him, then you should hang on in there.On the other hand if he has dumped you, then all I can say is hes not worth it and time will heal your aching heart. Soon enough someone else will come along when you are ready and whisk you off your feet. Chin up!!
2006-07-25 13:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by sleepo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you broke up with him. You should probably call him, and try to get him to meet you somewhere so you can talk to him straight up to his face. This way you'll know he's actually listening to you, it will be better. Tell him how much you miss him, how bad your life has been without him in it and everything. I hope that works for you, and he changes his mind.
2006-07-25 13:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Chocolatey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, men come and go like busses...every 15 minutes. You want a brooding baby for a bf, then make up....if you want a mature man, drop the brat and think about making yourself happy.
2006-07-25 13:10:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you jumped into the fire a little to soon and forgot to do the math. Relationships are painful when they end even if they suck, remember that no body owes you their time or life, go get him if you f'd up!
2006-07-25 13:09:44 · answer #6 · answered by want2flybye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd try and give him his space for now.. perahps he just needs some time to figure some stuff out.. so try and keep your self busy with your friends and such..
let him know that your still intertested.. and you'll hang about for awhile untill he figures out stuff..
than if he doesn't come back than.. i guess you'll have to move on
2006-07-25 13:11:35 · answer #7 · answered by steph 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what happened next, don't keep me in suspenece it was getting ineresting. Sounds like you need to move on though, you're better off waiting to see if he still wants to be with you.
2006-07-25 13:11:10 · answer #8 · answered by K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you still care about him, maybe your breaking up with him was a mistake, even if you don't feel like it was, maybe your heart was telling you it was. Maybe you should get back together with him.
2006-07-25 13:09:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take time away from eachother like a week ,you are getting to connected.
2006-07-25 13:11:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋