We have been together for a while and we never do anything together. Is it normal to be in such a slump? I want to do things but he never does. He works a lot and I understand that.
2006-07-25 06:02:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He works until late every night and only has one day off a week, so its not like hes lazy. I just feel sometimes that he should make more time for me.
2006-07-25 06:39:07 · update #1
I think it's pretty normal for couples to get in a rut. Be thankful, though that your bf is such a homebody - it's better than wondering where he is all the time, or being with a guy who is too obsessed with his friends. Do what I do, make plans for a special date night, tell him when and where, lay out an outfit for him, - make it a total no-brainer for him. Be sure to include an enticing hint of a passionate ending to the night and he'll be more than happy to get off the couch for a night out. You have to make your own excitement. Good luck.
2006-07-25 06:09:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a feeling there is something missing in your life, confront your b/f and discuss it.
He may feel the same way as you. The point is to give yourselves a chance at a future together or being friends apart.
2006-07-26 17:08:02 · answer #2 · answered by marnefirstinfantry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and I have been together for over ten years and we still "date" at least once a month. It keeps things interesting and exciting. Plan the date, make the reservations, enjoy yourself.
2006-07-25 13:05:13 · answer #3 · answered by Tina T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him you should be together but if all he does is sit around all day and doesn't want to do anything I would dump him in a heartbeat.
2006-07-25 13:06:32 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
but it is still good to go out to dinner or do something
2006-07-25 13:05:48 · answer #5 · answered by jbmasterdragon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is going "where" please? Sorry that you found a loser. Chalk it up to experience, and move on.
2006-07-25 13:06:33 · answer #6 · answered by Shady Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes..
2006-07-25 13:10:25 · answer #7 · answered by cOme_Fly_wiTh_mE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋