i have lived with her for two years. she's really important to me. i miss her so much, i feel as if someone has ripped my heart out and stepped on it a million times!!! we both said things that we really didn't mean, and now she's out of my life and it hurts. i love her so much because she's the only true mom that i have ever had. i want to call her but i can't. i can't sleep, i think about her a lot. what should i do??? best answer will get 10 points!!!!!!!!!
2006-07-25 05:49:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Make a copy of your entire question. Put how you can be contacted at the end of it along with an apology and can we try again. Mail it to her. She is probably feeling the same way and worried about you too. Good luck. m
2006-07-25 06:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by Mache 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have a special relationship with your foster mom that even ppl like myself with a biological mom wish we had. when you think about it, how often is the opportunity that you get placed in such a good environment. it's so easy to hurl crazy insults at each other; but at the end of it all it's not worth the break down of a strong relationship. would you say? good relationships are hard to come by. i bet your foster mom would love to hear from you. if the relationship is as good as you say, she's probably wishing you will come back. really it's not about who's right or wrong, but that after the spat both of you get something from it. do the ultimate thing, and apologize for your part in the argument. you can only do your part, right? in anything, you can only do your part.
2006-07-25 06:06:18 · answer #2 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Running away from problems is never the answer. Everyone has an argument once in a while. You should try to get to her by all means and take the first step to bridge the gap. You are in a position in which you have more to lose than you gain. Talking about it is more than enough. Just talk to her face to face. Everything will get cleared up pretty soon. Remember this.
YOU ALWAYS HURT THE ONES YOU LOVE THE MOST.
2006-07-25 05:57:03 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her! My foster mom was important to me too. I totally know what you mean. Meet her for lunch or dinner, and talk. Apologize, and tell her you love her, miss her, and need her. She's your mom, she will always love you. Good luck sweety!
2006-07-25 06:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
apologize and ask for forgiveness. If she loves you as much as you seem to love her, she is hurting too and wants you back. You don't even have to apologize for what you were fighting over... just say you made a mistake getting so upset and moving out.
2006-07-25 05:54:16 · answer #5 · answered by lexie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to her in person or over the phone. Apologize for the things you said and have a heart to heart talk. Chances are she's probably thinking the same thing.
2006-07-25 06:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by karma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call her now!! Tell her the truth and apologize and mean it!! Find a better way to communicate with her..but most of all...apologize and be honest!!! If you can't call her, then write her a letter, but I recommend calling or going to visit her in person. Good luck!!
2006-07-25 05:53:56 · answer #7 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sweetie why cannt you call her? communication is the key, tell her you were just mad and you didn't mean it. you know all people even old folks we all get angry and say things we don;t mean. so there is always hope and light ahead keep your chin up!! if your really love your foster mon than don't give up.be peristant,
Bless you and all my best.
2006-07-25 06:25:27 · answer #8 · answered by RAINBOW 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU TRULY LOVE HER THEN CALL HER AND IF SHE TRULY LOVES YOU THEN SHE WILL FORGIVE AND FORGET AND WELCOME YOU BACK WITH OPEN ARMS. MOMS ARE JUST THAT WAY (EVEN FOSTER MOMS).
GOD BLESS!!!
I WISH YOU THE BEST!!!
2006-07-25 05:55:40 · answer #9 · answered by sharon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋