Lately my girlfriend doesnt seem to wanna hang out w/ me.. what should i do to bring her back?

Question

We have been goin out for around 7 months and up until recently things have been great. what should i do????

Answer 1

It's too late. The window of opportunity has closed. It would appear that she is attracted to another. The things you do in a relationship to keep it together .... have to be done before it deteriorates.

Answer 2

Jake, if you guys have been together so long then you should be able to talk about these kinds of things. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 6 months and we tell each other everything. All you need to do is ask her whats going on. She could be really busy recently and you are just reading it all wrong. Or she could be questioning her feelings. Because of the wide range of possibilities you need to ask her and get a straight answer. This will save you from the mind games and will save you from a lot of stress. Once she tells you what the problem is then ask her how you could help to fix it because you want this relationship to work. If it does turn out that she is just busy, ask her when the best time to see her next would be and then just relax until then. Either way its all about communication. The secret to every relationship, friendly or romantic, is good communication. Good luck and God bless.

Answer 3

She could just be losing interest in which case maybe you should talk to her about it. Don't lay it on thick, just say "so you seem a bit distant, Is everything okay". Let her know that she can be honest with you without you getting irate about it. Not saying that she is losing interest but your relationship won't be so mysterious if you'd just be open and honest with her. Who knows maybe she's just got something going on outside of your relationship that she feels would burden you so she's not telling. Maybe it will be a good thing because she can talk to you about it and release whatever she's going through. But the best thing is to always be up front.

DO NOT, I REPEAT DO NOT STOP CALLING HER FOR WEEKS. Maybe give it a few days tops, but for all any of us know this could be a common case of miscommunication, maybe she's feeling the same thing about you. Maybe she just wants to slow down a bit. And don't try to make her jealous, cuz then she really lose interest. I don't know how old these people are telling you to sit there play games, and I don't really know how old you or your g/f are either but us ADULTS don't like games.

Answer 4

I know its easy to become attached to one individual, but analyse yourself for a moment. When it comes to women, Its easy to get caught up being super nice, and giving them everything they want. Most women see this as being needy, and that they are the only source of happiness in your life. First take a break for a few weeks. Totally stop communicating with her. Let her call you after she thinks you dropped off the face of the earth. In the meantime, hang with your friends, find a hobby, and when she does ask you what you have been doing, show her that she isnt the most important thing in your life (even though you dont mean it). Keep letting her contact you, instead of the other way around. Dont say yes to everything she wants, but surprise her once in a while when she isnt expecting it. And hey, if that doesnt work out, there are plenty of fish in the sea... no need to worry about just one.

Answer 5

Is she going thru some REAL rough times? Anthing that may distract her from you? But something real... PMS doesn't count.
Either you are hanging out with her too much or she is moving on. The best way to find this out is to give her some space. Leave her alone for a couple weeks, but completely ALONE: no phone, email or anything! After that if she ain't chasing after you, then she is either cheating on you or moving on. And in that case you should do the same.

Good luck!

Answer 6

This will work...
When you have done things apart for a bit, say how much fun you had doing and how cool is. Over the course of a week mention this girls name a couple times. She will start to get jealous. If she says anything about it just say "oh, she is good looking and cool, but we are just friends." she will wrap you a little tighter around her..

Answer 7

she is probably no longer comfortable around u or she is comparing u to her friends and the b/f and find u inefficient in one way or the otther or u do some stuff that irritate her....no offence here pls

Answer 8

mayb u shd try n speak to her abt it. communication is very impt. i hope u r able to reach her heart to get the answers

Answer 9

watch out for her female friends... she might be bi-curious.