iv finally pluked up the courage to finish my dik hed of a bf and now im ready to move on, however im scared and anxoius because i have been used to being with him 4 so long and i dont know what to expect...my ex wants me bak and now i just feel like getting bak with him for the simple reason of being anxious
2006-07-25 05:41:43 · 14 answers · asked by Shli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you are a young women you have your whole life waiting for you. do something with it. a year in a half is not long baby doll you just getting started . there are other out there just find a good one it just might take some time . while you have that time find your self and know that you are better then what you give your self and do what is right . your heart is your map to happys liston and follow what is says and dont let any one bring you down iam sure your a pretty and smart lady and you can do anything you want your ex is your ex for a reason . move on but first give you some time to be you and be carefull. life has its leasons waiting for you deal with one day at a time and you will be alright.
2006-07-25 05:52:31 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, what a great foundation for a relationship! He'll have undying respect for you!
Don't you deserve better than a "dik head of a bf"? After 1.5 years, you should know by now he must not be the one!
Throw your heart into something else! There are advantages to NOT being in a relationship, so take advantage of them! Spend more time w/ your gf's. Take up gormet cooking. Play a sport. Volunteer at the hospital. Do some shoe-shopping. Anything!!
But learn to enjoy being yourself. It's a great thing to do anyway, because it will prepare you for your NEXT relationship - you'll have more to offer. You go, girl!
2006-07-25 05:51:31 · answer #2 · answered by whabtbob 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.5 years is a drop in the bucket. Spend some time alone with yourself. Figure out what you want. Some people just do not like to be alone so they would stay in an unhappy relationship to prevent that. Try some new things, a new class, a gym, a book group. Something that is totally out of the ordinary for you. You will find new people, new friends, new interests, and probably a new guy.
2006-07-25 05:48:09 · answer #3 · answered by kess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.5 or 15? If it's only a year and a half, then stop and think to yourself...will it be any easier to leave (because you know he's a dik head) when you've been together 2, 3,4,5,6,7.....years? How about if he gets a short stint of being sweet (some dik heads become sweet for a short time) and you wind up marrying him? You need to think. You need to go out and have some fun...hang loose! Aloha!
2006-07-25 05:48:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah honey i know what u mean am thre too. well, just dont take im back coz then its another 1.5 years of a dickheaded bf. get talking to new people, or serious talking with people that yuo always new. tell yourself htat you left coz u want a cahnge and so looking for the exact same qualities defeats the perpose. also, find places that you went to before you last bf or completely new places. if you dumped the guy, you gotta move on. enough is enough i say. good luck hey and hope you meet someone soon.
2006-07-25 05:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. Be friends with your Ex &... dont forget the reason you guys broke up in the first place. My Ex brings up us getting back together & it kind of bothers me because he's Soooooooooo Hot! I have the same problem-ish, 3 years & wearily out of practice.
So. Obviously, you've got this Hot guy on one hand that used to do a lot of the things you liked, but there are other hot guys out there too. Probably with better cars... maybe?
2006-07-25 05:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by icstaqx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did well in ending that. You should not make the mistake of trying to date again too soon. Live life! Enjoy all those things you could not do before! Interact with people, but please DONT rush into dating again: you will end up in another bad relationship and at the very end you will end up being old alone and bitter. Good luck
2006-07-25 05:46:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1.5 years? Try 15 or 20!! Girl just move on. There is a good man out there for you but you won't find him if you keep going back and forth with your ex. Just live and let God.
2006-07-25 05:45:58 · answer #8 · answered by elr212006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eek, sounds awful. But you are able to separate your grief over the end of the relationship from the anxiety you feel over entering into the unknown, and that's real important.
2006-07-25 05:45:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no point in going back to a person whom you have declared ex-whatever the reason may be.
2006-07-25 05:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by suchsi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋