my parents won't let me date this guy that they think is not christian but he's catholic...what do i do?
2006-07-25 05:37:37 · 21 answers · asked by dabugster20 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Point his parents to the Catholic Answers web site.
I'm guessing that his parents hold a great number of misconceptions about Catholicism. That's usually the case with Christians who don't think Catholics are Christians.
If they read some of the tracts on that site, I think they'll find that most of what they "know" about Catholicism just isn't true.
2006-07-25 05:41:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Educate your parents that Catholics are not only Christian but are arguably, from a historical angel, the original Christian Church. Interestingly, the Catholic Church your boyfriend is a part of probably would say your parents aren't Christian. So, who is? Anyone calling on Jesus name, and if you look at Catholic prayer, Jesus is invoked. Your parents suffer from a from a condition called ignorance mixed with intolerance. Ps-- Miss Diva needs to return to school and read some good Christian books!
2006-07-25 05:57:47 · answer #2 · answered by swimswet 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well honey if you are old enough to make your own decisions you are in luck because whether your parent's like it or not he's a Christian too. What denomination are your parents? That's probably the problem, whatever your denominational beliefs are is what your parents are going by. Your fella is a Christian though if he's a Catholic.
When you read these answers Miss Diva is a perfect example of what I am talking about, Catholics are Christians, it's the denominational beliefs that cause the problems. There is only one Jesus Christ, there are many denominations and many different trains of thought, Christ death on the cross, resurrection, and belief in those two things; that he died on the cross for your sins, your acceptance of him in your heart as your Lord and Savior are what make you a CHRISTIAN.
2006-07-25 05:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by Only hell mama ever raised 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents "forgot" that, until the Protestant Revolution in the 1500s, Catholics were known as "Christians." Technically, Catholicism is the only Christian religion--it was founded by Christ. Any others claiming to be Christian are founded by men (or women).
Tell them, "Actually, he's Christian and I'm a heretic." All you have to do is convert to Catholicism before you are married. Then, you'll be a Christian, too! I know, it's very difficult to see the Bride of Christ, behind her ugly veil of sinful leaders and members, but true, traditional teachings of Catholicism contain all truth necessary for salvation. It's easy to be put off, by luke-warm church-goers and their modern, insipid liturgy...
2006-07-25 05:55:35 · answer #4 · answered by mrearly2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Catholics are very much Christians. I'm an Eastern Orthodox Christian. Protestants, Lutherans, Baptists, Methodists... all Christians. What kind of Christian do your parents prefer??!!
2006-07-25 05:42:40 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am a christian and married a catholic woman, I have nothing against that religion, but from my own experience I can tell you to walk away from that relationship now that you can, love is not just a feeling, if you really know what you believe and are not willing to stop believing walk away now!! there are just too many things where we don't agree with their faith. examples we use the bible as our guide and final authority for the truth, they believe in the bible,pope, and tradition just to tell you some, where will you go to church? think about your sons!! you will be alot better of with some one that believes what you belive, and if you are planing to get married to him and he will change for you,that is wrong. You live your live and beliefs according to the bible and let God change people, if that is his will don't make your life miserable, there is nothing worst than two heads, two beliefs, living under the same roof. and if you are not planning to get married you are living out of Gods will, be careful with fornication, if you've done it repent and seek the lord. Receive jesus as your personal savior and he will forgive you he died on the cross for your sins cause he loves you, don't complicate your life. I wish I've done it.
2006-07-25 06:14:04 · answer #6 · answered by FRIEND 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you date him and then marry him how will you raise your children? Your parents have a point. He may be "christian" or he might not be but the point is You may be "unequally" yolked. Talk about your differences in beliefs and how you might want to teach children. The contention in a home could tare a family apart. don't settle. Date only those you might marry. And only consider marring those who believe like you do. Your home will be a happier place. Don't bring children into home with contentions over religion.
2006-07-25 05:48:20 · answer #7 · answered by I-o-d-tiger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your parents and explain them what Catholics do believe. Have the young man explain as well. If they still refuse you need to respect your parents and wait until you are old enough to make this decision without their permission. I am a Catholic and my husband is Methodist. I would never rec commend disobeying ones parents.
2006-07-25 05:43:36 · answer #8 · answered by Debra M. Wishing Peace To All 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him Christian. It is easier for him to be converted because Christianity came from Catholic church
2006-07-25 05:41:02 · answer #9 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is Catholic he is NOT a Christian he is Catholic... totally different religious... if you are serious about him be careful... different beliefs lead to much frustration and difficulties in marriage... especially when children are involved because he will want to teach your children something different than what you want to teach them.
2006-07-25 05:42:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋