the big brother I’ve always wanted and he’s just like you always describe Daddy warmhearted and kind. So I can guarantee you I won’t get my heart broken again.” But I guess what they say is right “Mother’s are always right.” But in a way I still have faith that the theory can be proved wrong. All my life I’ve dreamed of having a big family but most of my mom’s family is in Nigeria.
Dave ever since the day I was told I had older brother’s and sister’s not a day goes by that I don’t think about all of you. Now I don’t much you hate or dislike Daddy I want you to look at me for me not just some child of Daddy. You don’t know one third of my life and my struggles I’ve been through. And it breaks my heart all the time when I think of how it seems to me you didn’t even try to get to know me before you judged and so many times I’ve been written off like that.
I may be only 13 years old but I’ve learnt a lot about this world and I’m not stupid. Its not my fault that our dad and you didn
2006-07-25 05:19:33 · 18 answers · asked by Lady T 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
All you can do is think on this and write it out a few more times. Hopefully the family you never knew you had will be more wise and understanding. Have you spoken to them at all yet? Don't start out accusing if you haven't. They may have tried to contact you but your family here did not allow it.
If this is the first time contacting them, simply stick to how you feel about the situation. Don't assume that you know how they feel.
And even if they do want to keep in touch with you and get to know you, it may not be the "close family feeling" that you have been looking for and wanting. Don't set out with big expectations. They grew up in Nigeria? You are growing up here in the states? These seriously are different worlds and cultures. Yes some things are the same. But some things are greatly different.
2006-07-25 05:30:48 · answer #1 · answered by phseamstress 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:48:58 · answer #2 · answered by hanrahan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK I read all your questions and I think I understand your question. I can not say how your brother would feel I was in a similar situation I met my sister that my father had by another woman when I was about 10. I am an only child and thought having a big sister would be nice but she had her own life and we don't really talk to each other and that's been 25 years ago! My point is if your brother is not interested don't worry about it you have a wonderful life to look forward to and if he misses out on having a great Lil sister it is his loss not yours. Family is nice but there are lots of people out there who don't have family but manage just fine sometimes your "family" is not just your blood relatives but people you can count on and are close to.
2006-07-25 05:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by stophatinboo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have been through a lot. I hope you eventually find peace and reconcile with your family. Many good things happen in time. Good luck. Peace.
PS - THE FIRST PART OF THIS IS ON ANOTHER QUESTION. LOOK IT UP UNDER THIS POSTER. IT MAKES MORE SENSE THEN.
2006-07-25 05:23:56 · answer #4 · answered by American citizen and taxpayer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really hope they accept you if they don't l suggest you just live a normal life wothout him or them l'm not sure, so what happened to the rest of the story?
2006-07-25 05:27:09 · answer #5 · answered by Lil mama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel u are not alone in this situation and with time they wil come to understand and give a chance at tryin to know u.i just hope u wil not ve regrets once u knw them
2006-07-25 05:23:44 · answer #6 · answered by mimi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a child trying to act all grown up
confused
sad
take your pik
2006-07-25 05:24:31 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are you trying to say or ask dear? Your story made no sense.
2006-07-25 05:23:52 · answer #8 · answered by Lady Mandeville 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm, confused?
2006-07-25 05:23:52 · answer #9 · answered by Flower Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wha?
2006-07-25 05:23:18 · answer #10 · answered by paanbahar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋