Ive been with him for 5 months. About a month or so ago, he started to get really busy at his job and had to work until maybe 1030-11 at night, making us spending time together hard. I talked to him about this and when I tell him I miss him, he tells me he feels guilty because he knows he doesnt talk to me as much as he used to and he knows we dont see each other a lot. But, he doesnt want to break up, he said he hopes I will be able to withstand his work schedule because he cares about me a lot. He said he cant do anything to change it, and it upsets him because it's not fair to me. On the nights when he doesnt work late, I offer to go over but he doesnt even acknowledge me sometimes. I see him maybe once a week, maybe every 2 weeks. it's very hard on me, I dont know if he is telling me the truth. I havent seen him in 2 weeks and sometimes I dont know if he even wants to see me. He said he has family stress. Is he really stressed out or telling me he doesnt want me anymore?
2006-07-25 05:10:21 · 23 answers · asked by Ashley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would personally let that ship sail.
2006-07-25 05:16:04 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one! It could be either... Either he truly has a horrible work schedule and cant spend the time or he is defiantly moving on... Try offering to "bring him his dinner" for his lunch break at work maybe once a week and the two of you could sit in the car and eat together and see how he reacts to that. As a married person that is how my husband and I got time together for about a year while he was working a hard schedule like that. If he is objectionable or "acts" weird about it, just tell him you like him a lot but for a little while until his schedule evens out would he mind if you saw other people socially because your having a hard time with the alone time, if he is trying to get out it will make it a little easier for both of you.
2006-07-25 12:21:20 · answer #2 · answered by "A" Mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no way possible that he an request off ...weeks in advance? This may be the time you want and need to keep things together. If there is no possible way of being together, it would be best for you to leave the relationship and find someone who can give you the attention you deserve. Good luck. Remember you deserve to be loved and I'm sorry if he cannot provide that.
2006-07-25 12:16:39 · answer #3 · answered by brown_eyed77414 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl lets be realistic there might be other reasons why his not spending time with you. put it this way if your work was keeping you fm being with your bf and you have family stress wouldnt you want to be with your bf as much as possible.???
if that was really the case i think he'd want to be with you and allow you to make him feel better. im going to expose here... your bf sounds like me... i was cheating on my bf and came up with so many excuses and i would still tell him i cared for him and that i missed him and all but i only did that cause it was hard to tell where i was standing with the other guy.
girl, start flirting around and find another guy. good luck sorry for this but i just want to be real.
2006-07-25 12:19:34 · answer #4 · answered by CALI GIRL 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From now on, be unavailable when he says he has time to see you. You're losing precious days obsessing about this guy, because if he truly cared about you he would make time for you, regardless of his schedule. What kind of a job does he have that he has to "work" that late every night?
2006-07-25 12:15:52 · answer #5 · answered by Nefertiti 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok just make sure he loves u ..spy on him if he doesn't do any thing ok he loves u and at this point u have to understand that he is busy he really can not make it out .....give him some times every thing will be ok but first make sure he doesn't meet any body c'mon spy on him the way not to see u around spy on him coz that's gonna be so bad :D
2006-07-25 12:23:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what you are going through, you just have to talk to him and let him know how you feel! boys r stupid they do things without even realising it pisses their girlfriend off! im sure things will be fine, relationships are about compromise no matter how much we dont want them to be!
2006-07-25 12:15:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drama Queen!Why don't you trust him? What the hell did he do to you?The is trying to make a living...can ya giv'em a brake?If you don't want to be there than go.but for god sakes , don't give him anymore stress.
2006-07-25 12:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by ronchoward 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to break up with you but doesn't have the balls to tell you. Also, are you two having sex? If so, he still wants to get laid and hasn't found anyone else yet. He's conflicted where he doesn't want to deal with you but he's still horny.
2006-07-25 12:14:46 · answer #9 · answered by gunga_gungalunga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants you and loves you but he has a lot on his mind and work that needs to be done but when he free make it last and relax his mind take away thepainand stress
2006-07-25 12:15:34 · answer #10 · answered by lady 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is trying to break up with you but is unable to come right out and tell you.
2006-07-25 12:16:24 · answer #11 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋