2006-07-25 05:05:28 · 30 answers · asked by Krissy P 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no.... dont be silly
2006-07-25 05:20:56 · answer #1 · answered by J F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if Ur very attractive, most boys will be too scared to kiss U.
but U shouldn't just kiss someone cos all Ur friends have, wait for the right person to came along
and is not pathetic, not matter what any one says, do what U feel is right, and don't let anyone pressure U into anything Ur not comfortable doing
when the right bloke comes along U'll know, and it will feel better then just rushing out to kiss the first guy U see, just to say U did it
2006-07-25 05:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by caprilover79 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not pathetic my dear, you are just too joung!!!
Do not be affected by any "friends" who pretend to be clever and think that you have to become a mother at thirteen!!!
Do not do this to yourself. Do not destroy your life with a boy who will only pay you attention in order to bring you into bed.
Have you ever been in love? Do you know what great happiness awaits you, if you are patient and wait for the right person?
Do not let yourself fall into a trap. And do not think that since somebody is handsome enough, is also a saint. There are people who may have the looks, but do not worth more than the beggars on the streets...
I hate to see young girls destroy their life like this. Try to build your life and personality first. You have already made a clever step and came to ask us in this forum. I will tell you a little secret: I am twenty nine and I have never kissed anyone. Because I could see there were too many jerks out there. They do not worth it, and I do not worth it.
If your 'friends' are bullying you about this, then they are not real friends, and you should get away from them. It is not worth for anyone in your life, to fall into such a trap. Just try to get to know somebody as a personality first. If you feel that you cannot live without this person, then you will know the answer in your heart and the Universe will sort out all the other details.
I find it very sad to see teenage mothers in this country, who do not know anything about life, do not know how to raise their children, do not know how to behave, and then they wonder why everything is going wrong in their lives...you are doing just fine, just give it some time and you will see in the near future how much more clever and down to earth you have been!:0) We are gradually building a house from the foundations, we do not start from the loft!
Also, you will have the proper respect by men if you are careful and do not hang around with the one boy and then the other. It is true love that is worth, it is not a competition of which girl gets most of the kisses. I am trying to save you from this...please think about it carefully.
One more little secret from personal experience: Men love and respect INNOCENT girls. They may sleep with naughty girls, but they laugh at them behind their back...whatever boy tells you the opposite, he is trying to fool you to his advantage.
Love and wisdom to you...
Natalie.
P.S.
Just a small addition, I hope you will still notice. How do you think you will realise if somebody really cares about you? When he respects your wishes and feelings and accepts the fact that you are not ready to sleep with him. I once met somebody, who really loved a girl, but could not be with her because her parents did not allow it. "I love this girl! He said. If they do not want me to, then there will be no sex, nothing! I just want to be with her!" He said, and I really admired him for what he was, for his honest feelings.
Who would ever do this in our days? Only the few ones who are really worth waiting for...
Have you seen 'The Last Samurai' with Tom Cruise? Watch this film, and you will see what I mean...
2006-07-25 06:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Natalie P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Yes you are. don't listen to the others,I'm telling the truth. You're pathetic because you are attempting to conform to societies stereotypes - if you haven't done it it's for a good reason. The longer you wait the better it will be and the more respect you will get from friends and other guys. You're holding a very precious thing, don't throw it away. good luck. If you're 20 and still haven't kissed give me an email.........
2006-07-25 05:12:42 · answer #4 · answered by kenfitameen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You totally arent pathetic. Its pathetic that society have made up some silly rule about everybody having to be experts at everything and if were not were stupid.
When you first do it, it will feel right and you will then realise how easy it is. After then you wont know what the fuss is about, there are no worries.
Good Luck. x
2006-07-25 05:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you're not pathetic!
Just enjoy being young. By the way, bear in mind a lot of your friends will pretend to have done all sorts with boys just to sound cool. Don't be sucked in. Do only what YOU want and when YOU are ready to do it.
2006-07-25 05:11:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Princess
DO NOT set deadlines for things! "I am 16 therefore I must kiss a boy". That is not how it should work.
remember that you are going to remember that first ever kiss for the rest of your life. Do you want to keep thinking back to it and wondering WHY you picked that ugly idiot, or do you want to remember it with a twinkle in your eye?
When you are ready to kiss a boy, you will know it, and it will come naturally.
2006-07-25 05:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by The Lone Gunman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, I'm older than you and I've never kissed a guy before... It still gets me down when most of my friends have lost their virginity but I know I should wait, I haven't met anyone I like yet. AND everyone tells me I look like a model, so maybe the guys are just too damn scared of us babes!
2006-07-25 05:37:33 · answer #8 · answered by Rox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you just need to find a complete stranger to kiss and get over that initial anxiety. Want my number?
2006-07-25 05:17:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're still young so don't worry about it. A lot of guys your age are just afraid to kiss a girl.
2006-07-25 05:08:35 · answer #10 · answered by Jake 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i was 16 before i kissed a girl, you probably just have a more selective taste (thats what i used to tell myself anyway)
2006-07-25 05:09:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋