Why?
2006-07-25 05:04:36 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't give him any reason to be worried but many guys like to be my friend
2006-07-25 05:07:44 · update #1
Well, I know how he feels. My gf had the same kinda thing going on. It's not that he doesn't trust you, he wants to. But he knows that those other guys flirt with you and look at you and try to hit on you, even if they are only "joking". That makes him jealous. For me, it wasn't that I didn't trust her, it just made me jealous cuz I knew what those other guys were thinking. I would suggest you spend some time with him and let him know he is the priority of all your guy friends. Hope this helps
2006-07-25 05:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by FM?FU! 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Seriously, dump him.
I can't stand seeing that people are saying that you're acting like a slut and another person said that your guy friends are just "friends" that you haven't slept with yet. What crap!
Why is it ok for a guy to have girl friends but not okay for a girl to have guy friends?? That is seriously getting on my nerves that people think that way.
But anyway, it could be a sign that he may become possessive of you in the future and not let you do anything with anyone, unless it is him.
And keep in mind that the guys who are answering and saying stuff about "oh they just want in your pants" are totally wrong. They are those types of guys, so that's why they are answering that way.
2006-07-25 12:07:07 · answer #2 · answered by Goodbye 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he had as many Girlfriends as you have guy friends would you be jeolous....Now the honest answer.......YES You would,,,,,
If you are spending significant time with men other than your boyfriend, then either you dont really like your boyfriend and consider yourself still on the market or your teasing your boyfriend and he needs to be back on the market.
Dont be a hypocrit, if you really like this guy then limit your time with pretenders if you dont then you go your way and let him go his way
2006-07-25 12:11:35 · answer #3 · answered by Looking4Help727 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, your probably like me! You tend to have more in common with the guys than the girls and some guy's while that turns them on they get very insecure about it. Just keep in mind that dating is like shopping for clothes! You try them on for size and see what you like and what you dislike about them then go to the next until you find your Mr. Right!
2006-07-25 12:10:33 · answer #4 · answered by "A" Mommy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes just insecure maybe he has been cheated on in the past ..also I would get rid of him hes trying to be controling in a way sure sign hes abusive could all or one way (physically,emotionally ,mentally,vebally , finacially ........if you do decide to stay w/ him dont let him control who you have as friends ......once you do I guarantee you it will get worse and plus your friends will probably be in your life longer than this man
2006-07-25 12:11:01 · answer #5 · answered by bonita_lita_chica80sj 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he gets jealous...all you need to do is reassure him that you're dating any of them because you're dating him. If he still gets jealous then I would be like "look this isn't going to work out if you're constantly jealous, nothing is going on, and you need to stop being jealous or we're through"..try that...If he's worried then he somewhat doesn't trust you AND the other guys...
2006-07-25 12:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by dancer1883 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet if you asked all your male freinds if they'd like to have relations with you, with no strings, they would do it.
Most guys, especialy the ones with no guts enough to tell you they like you, wanna be with you. So they wait till the situation lends it's self to their direction. I'd put money on that.
Now if your male freinds have girls, that may be another story. However the single, male, straight, freind wants you.
2006-07-25 12:08:59 · answer #7 · answered by A man ready to commit. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how he sees you reacting to things your male friends do and say. Men sometimes read too much into things like that, especially when they've seen instances in the past where they have been cheated on.
2006-07-25 12:09:40 · answer #8 · answered by rainfire1977 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're boyfriend doesn't trust you, than maybe you should find another.Trust is a big part of a relationship.
2006-07-25 12:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by DJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is ur boyfriend into wheed or some...cause then he's not maintaing a normal mental balance....yes...u acting as a slutt can also b one of the reasons...or sometimes its just part of a learning period for the future...u must assess ur boyfriends willingness in ur relationship
2006-07-25 12:09:09 · answer #10 · answered by ponamms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋