My realationship with my current bf is very rocky, he will say and do things to get me so angry i will swear at him and even hit the wall. He will always bring ex gfs into it, for example 'she never complained about me being a liar' and it will reely annoy me. The next thing i know i have ended the relationship and then the next day i get back with him. I am so sick and unhappy
2006-07-25 04:54:16 · 6 answers · asked by Shli 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You gotta jump off that merry go-round!!
I've been there, and been there, and been there.
Ask yourself why you'd rather be with him and miserable then alone. Are you the type who goes from one relationship to another? Spend some time alone, find your balance....do things that make your soul sing and THEN get into a relationship.
If you're desperate to be with someone, then you'll end up attracting guys who treat you like dirt. Value yourself and you'll be valuable to someone else.
2006-07-25 05:04:13 · answer #1 · answered by Miss. A. Laneous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's obviously your only male friend and also the only one that your around all the time. Its hard to change something that your used 2. You seem to be weak when it comes to making yourself happy and your more worried about him. Think about yourself for once and go out with the girls and meet some new cute guys who doesnt piss you off, things wont get better between you 2 your only young once dont spend it with an asshole.
2006-07-25 12:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by ouch! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You mentioned that he is comparing you to former gf's of his. Even if you have to make up a bf, compare him to one who truly valued you. See if he likes trying to live up to your imaginary ideal a bf should be.
It sounds like he is not caring whether he loses you or not. This is not a good bargaining position for you. Yes relationships do involve bargaining. All relationships are about mutual benefit with only one exception, that being between God and man. This is not a situation you can fix. Either he cares or he doesn't, so dump him and make yourself available for others who will value you.
If you are not happy unless you are unhappy, you need to seek counseling. What I mean is, when you don't like guys who are good to you because they are good to you and therefore stick with guys like this one, you need guidance from a professional who can teach you to value yourself.
2006-07-25 12:09:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to get fed up and over him or the situation and I guess you are not as fed up as you think you are. Next time just don't break up and tell him he is pissing you off. If that doesn't work do something to piss him off and maybe he will leave you alone for good and you won't have to worry about it.
2006-07-25 11:59:26 · answer #4 · answered by Tori B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur right u r sick and u'll continue to be unhappy until u dump his a$$ and find somebody else who will treasure u!!!!
2006-07-25 11:57:32 · answer #5 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on your self esteem
2006-07-25 11:58:31 · answer #6 · answered by spidermaniii_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋