My mom grew up in poverty.When young,she worked hard 2 earn money so that her brothers and sisters can get proper education.When she married, it was not exactly a happy marriage but she held on for the sake of me & my brother. My father died 10 years back & she had to work again after a gap of 25 years.I became an engineer and my brother a doctor because of her hard work. i had a love marriage 3 years ago,not exactly against her wishes but she was not exactly happy with it either.Now, after a big fight, my wife has walked out of my home.and my wife has flatly refused to try to reconcile.
my mom, in her old age, has to witness all this. She is upset all day. I WANT 2 MAKE HER HAPPY, BRING SOME CHEER IN HER LIFE. HOW DO I DO THAT. PLEASE ADVICE, PLEASE HELP ME.
2006-07-25 04:44:07 · 3 answers · asked by archer 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Life is mostly how you react to the things that happen to you. Keep a positive attitude, especially around your mother. Even if your wife doesn't come back and your marriage is over, you can still have a fulfilling life and your happiness will make your mother happy, or at least happier. It's kind of difficult for the older generation to let go of their ideas about the way life is supposed to be. Just give her time.
2006-07-25 05:06:52 · answer #1 · answered by J 4 · 3⤊ 1⤋
My mother went thru the depression... married & had 10 kids... worked hard all her life.
Her main joy was in her hubby (daddy).
Find out what your mom's main joy in life is... & make sure to surround her with that joy.
2006-07-25 12:28:57 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
please don't take offense to this but you might want to try (family) counseling so mom and wife can say what it is about the other that bothers them, you may want to participate as well, good luck
2006-07-25 11:51:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mark 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋