I thought we were on the same page and with the problems going on in the middle east I find he is on the opposite side of the situation than I am. I am willing to listen to his beliefs and agree to disagree. We have our daughter in Christian school and he knows what I believe to be true but he is being very condisending ans saying only 10% of the Bible is historically accurate. We have talked before and he beleives in God but now he has done a 360. Confused and need advise.
2006-07-25 04:39:01 · 20 answers · asked by monkey f 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
They only thing I can say, it is not really important what you both believe, it is impossible for two people to have the exact same outlook on all things. The only thing that is important is to respect the others thoughts and taking them for what they are. Neither of you are wrong. It is what you believe and whatever you believe is truth to you. As a christian you should understand to accept people for who they are, not for what they believe. Maybe this is one of the reasons their is such turmoil in the middle east.
2006-07-25 04:50:14 · answer #1 · answered by racky101 1 · 13⤊ 8⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with a nice religous arguement. The only problem comes if he wants to repeatedly bring up the same thing which you have already agreed to disagree about. In this situation point out that you already know his opinion and you don't need to hear it so often.
Oh and if he says only 10% of the bible is accurate ask him to prove it or ask him which 10% is accurate.
2006-07-25 04:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by Mike 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suspect that before you married your husband was willing to tell you just about anything or alter his beliefs in any way because he wanted to marry you.
The need to keep that front up is not nearly as strong now. He has the freedom to let down the mask.
If your religious beliefs were important to you before you married you should have made certain of what his were before you became involved with him. It's too late now. Now you must love, honor and obey your husband as the scripture commands. You can also pray for him to grow closely to the Christ. But your respect of your husband is going to be the main tool that God will use to help heal your relationship.
2006-07-25 04:51:34 · answer #3 · answered by Bud 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your daughter in school and teach her everything you can about God.
You may need to talk with your pastor for advice. Maybe you and your husband should speak with him together.
Above all, do not, repeat, DO NOT stop praying. Invoke the Holy Spirit to bring peace to your family, to heal and enlighten.
Remember this: Without God, you will not a have family. Even if things get really bad and you would break up, stay close to God. He will come through for you.
God bless.
2006-07-25 04:46:39 · answer #4 · answered by Danny H 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because your husband does not believe fully in the bible does not mean that he does not believe in God, many couples go thru this, it is normal for you guys not to agree fully in religious matters as long as you both respect each others beliefs, one thing is not to bring it up much people tend to be very passionate about religion and can be easily offended.
2006-07-25 04:44:24 · answer #5 · answered by LaLa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 04:45:58 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's getting some outside influence? I myself hop from the fence. I think I'm going along with the world cuz its easier to swallow. Its easier to be bad than to be good.
All my old friends are that way. We grew up in Christian homes and communitys, but now they are all of the world, God doesn't exist. Its hard cuz sometimes they make sense.
2006-07-25 04:48:19 · answer #7 · answered by bruceh_almighty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Many guys outwardly agree with the spouse's religion for the main reason that doing so may keep peace. Now, when he's actually confronted with his own real opinions, he has to cut yours down in order to make his own seem that much more sound and sure. Don't let him take away your beliefs.
2006-07-25 04:42:33 · answer #8 · answered by Marvinator 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he recently been reading or hearing things about other religions? Has something happened in his life to cause him to question. Talk to him and get him to calmly explain to you what he feels is true and what isn't. Discuss things objectionably together. No one is going to agree 100%, but maybe you two can come to an understanding.
2006-07-25 04:45:34 · answer #9 · answered by Icy U 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its sad that this is happening to you. Your husband is supposed to be the one person you can talk to about anything without getting rudely talked to. Have you told him how that makes you feel? 10% is not true. You dont need sources to tell you that. And if it doesnt help to talk about it with him. Just try not to bring it up and just pray to God to give you strength adn to help you understand what is happening. All chistians have doubting moments. This could be his. Take care, and just pray.
2006-07-25 04:45:14 · answer #10 · answered by lil_frosty93654 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess he thinks your beliefs should be as his.. He is not showing any respect for your opinion.. I don't know what else to say other than stay away from that subject with him..Maybe at another time you can guys can discuss his attitude on this matter... good luck
2006-07-25 04:53:15 · answer #11 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋