One of my friend is having 2 girlfriends. He is staying with one of the girl whom he does not want to hurt or let her break-off. According to him, he deeply in love with another one as well. He does not want to break up with her too. Any opinion?
2006-07-25 04:38:53 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is a total jerk and needs to make up his mind.
2006-07-25 04:41:31 · answer #1 · answered by Girl 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish. Neither girl wants to be with a guy who has 2 girlfriends! He is hurting both girls MORE by stringing both of them along. The girl he isn't in love with deserves to be told that the relationship is over so she can find a guy who will love her. He needs to break it off with 1 of the girls! He just needs to say that he wants to see other people and does not want to be her BF anymore (he should not mention that he is already CHEATING on her!).
Also maybe you shouldnt associate with a friend that has so much drama in his life because it may spill over to you!
2006-07-25 11:46:54 · answer #2 · answered by Educated 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should definitely step up to the plate and let them both know what is going on. He's in love with them but lying to them. So the situation has got to end eventually.
Its a fine line, can he take care of both of them, can he handle both of their needs. If so, then keep doing what he's doing and make sure that neither of them gets hurt.
But the optimum thing would be for him to explain that he loves both of them, and keep his fingers crossed that they love him enough to just be happy with that.
2006-07-25 11:47:22 · answer #3 · answered by cloaked30m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is obviously deeply in love with every possible girl. Dilemma? I think his dilemma is how he can continue to con other girls.
Ask your friend to wake up his idea.
2006-07-25 14:49:43 · answer #4 · answered by sugar.peace 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's wrong and being selfish all he cares about is his feelings and that isn't fair to the 2 girls that he is with. you know he's hurting them more by staying that way, then just to let one go. plus when your in love with someone that's the one and only person u would be with, with no questions asked one of them he's with is for pitty and he shouldn't be stringing her around for the hell of it.
2006-07-25 11:44:10 · answer #5 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go on Jerry Springer
2006-07-25 11:42:00 · answer #6 · answered by southerngal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend has to chose, He can't have his cake and eat it too. If they find out he will lose them both.Tell him to make two list,things he loves and dislikes about each one. Keep the winner... tell him .. good luck and next time... one at a time, one at a time.
2006-07-25 11:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU FRIEND NEEDS TO MAKE UP HIS MIND BEFORE ONE OF THE GIRLS FINDS OUT ABOUT THE OTHER ONE. SOMEONE COULD END UP GETTING HURT IF YOUR FRIEND DOES NOT MAKE A CHOICE NOW. YOU CANT PLAY WITH PEOPLE FEELINGS LIKE THAT IF IT WAS ME AND I FOUND OUT I WOULD CUT HIM.
2006-07-25 11:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend has gotta be man enough to face his problems-first of all he's gotta approach the girl that he aint stayin' with,the fact that he's stayin' with the other one says a lot about their relationship,it's better to lose one than both......
2006-07-25 11:46:09 · answer #9 · answered by SLICK4YOU 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
opinion: he is a liar and he just wants to play games with easy girls who will give it up cuz they just wanna be loved. they are all head cases
2006-07-25 11:42:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋