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My friend trevor. asked a question on yahoo answers.
And said that he liked me. And he was thinking of asking me out.
But, he also said that his friends would hate him if he dated a un popular. I answered his question. And I said he should foregt about asking me out if he cares so much about popularity.
Was it right to say what I said?
What should I do?
I like him And he seems to like me.
But hes to afraid he will become a un popular.

2006-07-25 04:12:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

his user name is swaytrev
I think you can find him in the advanced search. if not.
go to singles and dating. and look for him.

2006-07-25 04:13:40 · update #1

If you want to see what he wrote. Look at my 13th answer.
Omg! I cant belive he read my question....
Well he is shallow.

2006-07-25 04:26:50 · update #2

14 answers

Your right in what you told him. If he is more concerned about what his friends think than what he feels and wants then you don't want anything to do with him. A real man follows his heart regardless of what others think of him.

2006-07-25 04:16:21 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 2 0

if that's the case then leave him girl because when he's around his friends he'll treat u like nothing but after words then ur alive. that's being used and that's not fair to u. You'll be his little toy. i think u should move on to something better if he cares more about his popularity then he does about his own feelings inside. show's in the future that all he thinks and cares about is what other people think and that'll cause problems in the relationship. So save ur self the time.

2006-07-25 11:18:25 · answer #2 · answered by Pisces chik 3 · 0 0

that sounds like my husband we were in the same situation you are in i was not very popular and we would talk all the time on the phone.and now we are married so i must have done something right. act like it does not matter and that should get his attention. if he calls dont answer all the time stay busy and if you do date someone make sure if you see him act like you are havn the best time ever and that will do it

2006-07-25 11:18:33 · answer #3 · answered by angel 2 · 0 0

yes u showed him up wiv conversation he too ballless to ask u himself ; now he knows u know that u know so wot next ???? doesnt seem to have changed ur life stuff him. Id neva not chase a chik i liked in fear of wot my mates thought u dont want hugs kisses and love from ur mates. They usually known to turn up drink ur beer and leave a mess. Ladies have so much more to offa than yobbo mates.

2006-07-25 11:18:29 · answer #4 · answered by howie 2 · 0 0

You did the right thing. He is very shallow and will probably treat you like crap. Save yourself the heart ache and wait for a real man to sweep you off your feet.

2006-07-25 11:16:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Ur 8th answer is right. I am reading this.
yah I no im shallow. And im sorry about that.
I guess im just not meant to have a gf .
Forget about me asking you out.

2006-07-25 11:24:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

yes. in a couple of years popularity won't matter character will and trevor obviously has no character. You have character for turning him down

2006-07-25 11:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by BrownMorristown 2 · 0 0

Yep that is the right thing, if he is so worried about what other people will say or think then screw him. You don't want that type of guy any way

2006-07-25 11:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0 0

You were completely right-he doesnt seem a nice guy so forget about him-he is not worth it

2006-07-25 11:28:22 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly girl 2 · 0 0

You were absolutely right because if he cares what others think then he is not worth your time.

2006-07-25 11:15:39 · answer #10 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 0 0

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