there is this extremely cute guy in my church and he is really cool.the thing is that i m not so cool that is why i m hesitating to tell him dat i like him.So please help!
2006-07-25 04:11:58 · 24 answers · asked by MAGENTA 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
real life story. this happened to me.
I really liked one of my best friends. one day i called her to see if she wanted to go to a movie. we sat together in the back row. (hint the armrests go up) in the begining i made sure i had some body contact (legs touching or 2 arms on the armrest) about 1/3 into the movie i slowly put my hand on my leg but close to hers. hopefully they will do the same slowly move your hand closer until they are touching. lift you hand up above the other persons slowly and if they are interested then they will open there hand and you can slide your hand into theres and intertwine ur fingers.hold hands for the rest of the movie. remember to let the other person accept every movement you make and dont force anything. let it flow.
good luck
god bless +
2006-07-25 04:13:57 · answer #1 · answered by California 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Invite him out with a group of people. Have a good time. Tell him you would like to do it again sometime 1 on 1.
2006-07-25 11:28:43 · answer #2 · answered by C.B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write him a note and ask a friend to give it to him, or just suck it up, get up enough nerve and just say "hi". Really, not many options out there for shy people, I know I am one. I always did the note thing...lol. Seemed to work for me, I always got the guy in the end.
2006-07-25 11:14:20 · answer #3 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
C'mon Girl, rock him. Use the get-to-know or need-to-know pick-up lines. If you have to let him notice that it's not only your handkerchief that could be falling but your underwear as well, then go. I tell you, he might just be waiting for somebody to catch his attention and who knows that girl is YOU. Good luck!
2006-07-25 11:20:14 · answer #4 · answered by Bully Charmer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he feel the same way as you too? If you intend to start a relationship with him, tell him how you feel and ask if he wants to start a relationship with you. Lo and behold, do not be disheartened if he just want to remain friends.
2006-07-25 11:14:46 · answer #5 · answered by Dani 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can't u wait? if u be the first one to say i like u he is gonna be the first one to say i don't like u any more ... a guy is a chooser ...a relationship must be a mutual agreement u like him but what if he doesn't like u? let's suppose u asked him out u will fall for him but still he is lookin for his own chose ...think about it guyz get a gurl who is so sexy n hot after sleepin stuff they will look for a better one ...don't do it and don't let any body to dump u ....let guyz ask u out ..the right one ..the one who likes u and he wants to be with u in any cost
2006-07-25 11:16:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me shy is sexy I would just want the girl to come up to me and ask in a really bash-full shy way. If I liked her that would totally do it for me. Even if I didn't I would still be impressed that she came up to me and even though she is shy say she liked me.
2006-07-25 11:15:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am in the EXACT same situation.... and everyone tells me to get over myself... but thats never gonna happen... and I wont allow my friends to tell him because Im afraid he might not like me anymore... you see ...me and him are really good friends .. I mean weve known each other since we were in 3rd grade.
2006-07-25 11:14:33 · answer #8 · answered by gbpackerbacker4 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invite him to something that he enjoys like a sporting event or something and that will break the ice a lot.
2006-07-25 11:14:16 · answer #9 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him, if you he doesn't appreciate it because you aren't up to his social level then forget about him. There will eventually be guys who like you just the way you are.
2006-07-25 11:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by Panada 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋