Before I went to school my boyfriend of 4yrs broke up with me...So when I got to school I caught the attention of the star basketball player...We started dating and then since he lives in Tenneessee and I live in Illinois we just thought it would be better if we just became friends...Now im back with the guy from home and school is about 3 weeks away...I wanna be with the guy from home because we have been together for so long but something is tellin me inside that I fell in love with the guy from school. Since school is only a few weeks away me in the guy from school have been talkin lately....I dont know what to do!!!!
2006-07-25 04:03:42 · 9 answers · asked by pink_purple_wiu 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Follow your heart, but don't F it up by trying to date them both. Hell, the star basketball player may be in the NBA some day and you would be set for life!!
2006-07-25 04:07:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Take them both. As long as they both know that you are dating them both, no one is cheating or being dishonest. There are many cultures where it is permissable to love more than one person. It is also a great misunderstanding in our society that we pair up...when it is possible to love many. There are many advantages to being polyamorous. Call it mutually honest non-monogamy. As long as everyone knows what is gong on, then it is ok.
don't be torn between two lovers. Embrace them both.
2006-07-25 11:09:05 · answer #2 · answered by loriahaven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to decide for yourself which guy is better for you, and which one actually has your best interest in mind. Although you could just remain friends with them both.
2006-07-25 11:08:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
which guy treats you better?if the one broke up with you he obviously doesnt love you even after 4 years.so id say go with the other guy and make the one who dumped you sick because you chose other guy cuz of guy who dumped you's actions
2006-07-25 11:09:32 · answer #4 · answered by frosteatsfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoever looks after you best is who you should pick-dont do the dirty on them by dating them both-pick one of them & stick with it.
2006-07-25 11:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give him a chance
2006-07-25 11:08:29 · answer #6 · answered by Ray Ray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u r confused
2006-07-25 11:07:37 · answer #7 · answered by Christina G ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do them both...
2006-07-25 11:08:58 · answer #8 · answered by J. T. N 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither i!
2006-07-25 11:07:55 · answer #9 · answered by Silvermouse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋