Why does it hurt in so many ways, as it can be wonderful.
If we are here to love someone else and be there "soulmate", then why does it hurt?
How come it controls people into jealousy even when the other person isn't even flirting with someone else, how does it create possesiveness, jealousy, anger, hurt, and weakness?
If its THAT wonderfull?
2006-07-25 03:21:32 · 12 answers · asked by Lexy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honey love does not create jealousy and anger, and a little vulnerablility can be a good thing. It leaves you open to not only the bad but the good and if you are only vulnerable with the people who truely love you then they would never purposely hurt you. Anger and jelousy are created by the person you are with because of insecurities, fear of losing you. If you truely found your soulmate then he would trust you, and know that you would not cheat on him or hurt him intentionally. Make sure he knows these things, and that he is appreciated, very loved, trusted, and respected. Relationships take work.
2006-07-25 04:01:16 · answer #1 · answered by sweetypie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
What you're describing is not love, that's why you don't see how wonderful love is. All of the feelings that you described are natural feelings, but I think that you are talking feelings that are extreme. When ever anyone is in love, we might feel some sense of these feelings at one time or another, but they should never make you feel that love is not wonderful. If that is happening, it's not love and you need to get out now.
2006-07-25 03:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by writeroftheyear1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is wonderful, sounds like you are not truly experiencing love. Love only hurts when it is one-sided, jealousy, anger, possessiveness are all signs of a single-sidede relationship. The true wonder of love comes when both sides are truly in love.
2006-07-25 03:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is only undesirable success that few persons have terrible stories. that doesn't injury the sacred seen true love which under no circumstances fails. Love is a actuality & no longer in basic terms a dream. It exists. it particularly works particularly nicely & lasts continuously. many cases human beings style incorrect movements as true love that's for specific to fail. Love has concepts & limitations too which will desire to be adhered too. I under no circumstances had any love in the previous marriage. Mine became an arranged marriage. right this moment after marriage as quickly as we met first we fell so deeply in love that i won't describe in words. That love is nicely suited for us , by using grace of God. it is going to stay so continuously.
2016-12-10 15:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by spadafora 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like this question, and I absolutely agree with you, but there is a quote I've read about this:
- If you love until it hurts, then there is no hurt, but only more love. (Mother Teresa)
I agree with her because if love wouldn't have its ups and downs and wouldn't make us go crazy, then people wouldn't appreciate it that much. Cause you only appreciate smth when you see the joy you get after the pain that it gave to you.
2006-07-25 03:29:22 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because its love. and love is a wonderful thing because even when your mad when a love song come on the fist person you think about is your mate. when you cry at nights when some1 calls you on the phone you hope it is you mate, and when it is your mate on the other line you put up a front and act like you still mad. and when you are arguing and your mate just says I LOVE YOU JUST SO THAT THE AGRUING STOP you cant help but to blush. thats love and you dont get that stop from any1 but that one person. the one person you shared everything to, the one person that seen you on ya most ugliest days and still thought you was the most beautifulest person on earth, the one person that talked about everything even farting on the phone, the one person that even when its boring on the phone you both still stay on just so that you two can fall asleep with oneanother, the one person that is your number 1 fan for everything even if you suck. it you really think about it, it really is wonderful
2006-07-25 03:31:52 · answer #6 · answered by MzBadHabit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes love is wonderful ..... but for true feelings of happiness in love you have to go beyond certain negative feelings like Jealousy, possesiveness, anger,hurt, weakness...these are very common negative feelings when you fall in love but when you rise in love you go beyond these feelings...love is god...
2006-07-25 03:28:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The love you're describing isn't love, it's control. Real love is trusting the person you are with completely.
2006-07-25 03:30:39 · answer #8 · answered by Roxy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
truth is if its REAL and your with your soulmate those emotions dont exist
if a relationship feels like work or you feel you have to work at it then its just not right
2006-07-25 03:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by Ðêù§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i feel what ur saying...but its so wonderful for the fact that we cant live w/o it...u cant say ur happier w/o out...or all those GOOD times u've had compared to all the BAD doesn't even come close...its love...its life ...its compromise
2006-07-25 03:25:13 · answer #10 · answered by chaand5 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋