i have known the guy for 10 years we went to school together and i like him alot.. but i met a guy about a moth. ago and he is the sweetest guy ever...but the guy i went to school with i cold fall in love with and marrie....but i dont know about the new guy yet...i like him too.what do i do????????
2006-07-25 03:20:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just wait and then it will come to you!! or you can just follow your heart, and choose the one that you think of first!! i know it is hard!! been there, done that!
2006-07-25 03:27:12 · answer #1 · answered by Christina G ♥ 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sound like you have not dated either. Thats what the dating process is all about - helping to get to know people and then making an informed decision. There is no law against seeing both as long as you are honest with both about the situation. You still have a ways to go before you need to make such a big "either/or" decision.
2006-07-25 10:25:01 · answer #2 · answered by kpizura 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forge and maintain friendships with both men. You'll learn more about both guys, and about who is more suited to be your life's mate (and even if either of them are). I'm not sure if it ever hurt any love relationship to start out as friends--hey, better to "just be friends" before than after.
2006-07-25 10:26:45 · answer #3 · answered by ohevshalomel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the new guy a chance because if anything was going to happen with the old guy then it should have happened already, don't let the new guy suffer.
2006-07-25 10:24:35 · answer #4 · answered by blue_girl_05us 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem a little bit bored with the long term guy or you wouldn't be having second thoughts about the new guy. Go with your instincts, they are there for a reason
2006-07-25 10:24:01 · answer #5 · answered by dmxdragon2 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it time to figure out what you really want.... If you don't decide for sure, you will ruin both relationships for good... That's what happened to my ex, she couldn't decide upon whether she wanted a healthy relationship on one with a old boyfreind that was abusive... and she tore both relationships apart...
2006-07-25 10:23:15 · answer #6 · answered by Rob D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
problematic problem research onto the search engines this might help
2014-06-16 04:42:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋