why doesnt my gf be open to me and tell me whats wrong even though we been together for 7 months?

Answer 1

scared of rejection and you not understanding or making fun of her because girls worry about silly things alot, or at least i know i do, and a lot of times it works itself out so i dont tell anyone

Answer 2

a lack of someTrust and maybe issues she had going on before you (family stuff, or personal issues within herself) that she is not sure you can handle yet. It is NOT a BIG problem, unless you make it one. First of all, think: Are not there some things you have shared with her? I am sure you can think of a few, that you did not think she would need to know or care to know. But, it's the fact that you are willing to listen that is the most wonderful thing a man can give a woman. JUST be THAT! Be the man that is willling and able to LISTEN! (for myself, it's one of my fiance sexiest inner qualities) She will tell you when she is ready and you will feel better for not having pressured her. If you share a secret with her, one that may embarass you or may be something you don't wish her to know, she may feel more comfortable opening up in the future.

Just be patient, whatever is "wrong" maybe minor or major but if you are always a good listener to her problems large or small, she will know she can tell and believe SHE WILL. That is how a couple (despite having other people who "dear" in their lives) become each other's best friends, trust takes time and patience and is not won by pressure or prying or guilt.

Just keep wanting to listen and hug her when you listen and look her in the eye or make her look at you even if she's embarassed or crying or cannot get it all out, it's okay...just get her comfortable...it WILL work out if it's meant to be.

Answer 3

Either she doesn't want you to think she can't handle whtever she is dealing with or maybe it's about you(sorry). If you ask her about it and she says nothing is wrong then tell her you know she isn't telling you something but that it's okay because when she wants to talk you'll be there to listen and help her if she needs it/you to.

Answer 4

Maybe she is still not comfortable with telling you things yet. It take some girls a while to be open with there b/f. So just give her some more time.

Answer 5

boys, guys whatever you wanna call them do not express their feelings, NEVER!!!! Believe me i know... You can ask him what's wrong and he'll tell you nothing, but deep down in his eyes you can see what is wrong, leave him for a day or two and then go back to him and tell him you would like him to tell you what is wrong and talk about it.... Communication is the key...

Answer 6

It is probably a matter of trust. Be patient and try to find a little more about her past realtionships, if she will tell you.

Answer 7

Thatz sweet but maybe she has trust issues and feel like if she gets to close she might get hurt

Answer 8

that's sweet of you to ask. that was my problem with ex bf.. and it turned out he had a lot of insecurities.. he was scared that i may not understand and i may reject him or i might think he's a burden.. just show some more interest.. show her that what she is.. is important for you.. and make her feel accepted afterwards.. :-)

Answer 9

i know it's been 7 months but give her time,all you can do is be their for her and comfort her, eventually she'll know she can trust you and open up

Answer 10

i used to be the same way which always made me b/f mad. talk to her about it. tell her how it makes u feel. thats what my b/f did and i tell him everything now even if i think it will make him mad.