Ok me and my ex have been Together for 1 year and 2 months.
We recently had a bad argument 2 nites ago and broke up.
He lives in a 3 story apartment bulidng,and his older sister and 2 necies live 1 floor down from him.And on Sunday nite his sister asked can I stay the nite and Babysit for her.I said sure because me and his family were close.So even though we were broke up I went to her apartment and baby sat for her.That night when he found out I was there he came downstairs to her place and started playing with his Necies.He saw me and said Hi..Then we all watched a movie and He went back upstairs to his apartment.
And later that same night he texted me and Asked could I come up to spend some time with him As a "friend" I agreed
And i went up there, and we kissed and hugged and he told me he missed me so much and he cant move on.And he tried to have sex but i wouldnt.And now he says he wanted to make it work that night and I hurt him when i left.Now he is talking to a girl.
2006-07-25 02:38:59 · 27 answers · asked by Lele12339 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So ... in other words you left the children ALONE in his sisters apartment while you went upstairs to his place and made out with him.
2006-07-25 02:46:56 · answer #1 · answered by BoomChikkaBoom 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i would say that he may still care some for you.. and maybe he just wanted some of something he missed..and i think you did good if you do not want him back.. and yes he will try to hurt you or talk to other girls just to get back at you.. men are like that and you turned him down.. they have this pride thing going on too...if he wants to make it work he is going about it the wrong way..if you still love him then you both should have a good talk about some of the reasons you broke up in the first place to see if you can make your relationship work again...
2006-07-25 02:44:07 · answer #2 · answered by sanangel 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a rule one more sex before the big breakup. If this guy was so understanding he would forgive and forget an argument. Since he is talking to another girl. It seems he was going to give you a booty Call. Good thing you didn't give him what he wanted. Dont be to avaliable for a guy. Its important to be yourself and make time for yourself to have fun. Get to know yourself. One day when your not looking a man will sweep you off your feet. You will be madly in love and he will too.
2006-07-25 02:44:19 · answer #3 · answered by girl176a1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're both really young and playing the games we all played at that age. Not a whole lot of advise for you, just follow your heart, but if he ends up sleeping with the other girl (break up or not) I would end things altogether. You can still be friendly with his family, just ask them to respect your feelings and warn you when he might be around.
2006-07-25 02:43:55 · answer #4 · answered by Lizzie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having read your other entries on this same subject, I'd have to agree that it's time for you to move on. Concentrate on whatever it is you have to do with your pregnancy and then once you've dealt with that move on and find someone else if you wish. I think he was just after sex. If he really wants you back, he'll ask you. Right now, he's stropping because you didn't give him any. He's too immature.
2006-07-25 02:46:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know, fresh break ups are hard to let go. Especially after you guys have been together for over a year. Trust me he's missing you, he just doesn't want to get hurt so he's trying to mask it with sex.
But be careful not to be so open to his just popping up when he wants too. If he comes back, and he will, make him work for you. Girl you are worth it...
Is he trying to seek revenge, maybe. But you have to go with your inner voice and know whatever decision you are making it's best for YOU!!!
2006-07-25 02:46:04 · answer #6 · answered by Ms. Bovey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wake up he is using you one as babysitter 2 possable sex partner 3 as his side dish in case the one relation dosent work he has you as a back up. yeah , he missed you alright he missed you helping babysit for his sister while she goes out.
Friends do not kiss and then go to the next person.
Sounds to me like he wants his cake and ice cream too well give it to him right in his freakin face!
You can do better then trash like that.
2006-07-25 02:49:57 · answer #7 · answered by Support Our Troops 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably was not right for you to begin with. Give your self some time and start to move on. What ever you do not go back to him because you will only end up getting hurt again.
2006-07-25 02:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by SOMEGUY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your ex is confused. He has a lot to fix and discover and realize. While he's on the road for that IF HE KNOWS he needs to stop and think, you should also do some heart building exercises yourself and place him out of the picture of your life for a while.
2006-07-25 02:44:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on! Do not waste time on him. He does not want to be with you he just wants to have sex with you. I am guessing you still have feelings for him; if you have sex with him that is all you will get sex. There will be no relationship. He wants a fu*ck buddy and that's all. Do not let him use you. You will get hurt!
2006-07-25 02:50:47 · answer #10 · answered by strawberries 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋