what do i do if my gf said that if i drink again she break up with me and i havent done nothing wong?

Answer 1

keep on drinking. she should love you just the way you are

Answer 2

If you really are not doing ANYTHING wrong when you're drinking, you should break up with her because it's not a healthy relationship if she gives ultimatums and threatens a break up when things aren't her way.

I learned that from Dr. Phil.

But, honestly, I think there's a reason why she doesn't like you drinking (maybe it's something you do when you're drunk?), and that is something that you need to ask her about. Unless you have a dependancy problem or are harmful to yourself or others when you throw a few back, I don't think you should stop drinking just for her. And if you continue to drink, it has nothing to do with how much you love her. I hate that, "If you loved me, you would..." crap because I think, "Well, if you loved ME, you wouldn't be asking me to change who I am." If you try to change for someone when you're not ready to, you will only grow to resent them.

Stop drinking if you are okay with that, but if you're not, come to a compromise in terms of maybe how much you can drink, frequency, etc. and make an effort to work on what is bothering her about your drinking. You shouldn't have to succumb to your partner's every wish, relationships are about compromise and acceptance.

If she can't meet you half way... what else is she not going to meet you half way on down the road?

Answer 3

If you have not done anything wrong, then why did she ask you not to drink again? I say this because, I grew up with an alcoholic father and I must say that even though he doesn't overdrawn or overindulge, I hate it when my fiance drinks, as I seldom drink myself. He drinks with friends weekly and I may drink a few times a year. I remember I asked him NEVER to drink at the start of the relationship and of course, it was not a reasonable request but he tried to accommodate me, until we drank together and then all bets were off. The reason someone asks a person not to drink, could be THEIR OWN BACKGROUND of having a drunk in their household and the abuse and scary stuff that goes along with that, YOU may be PERFECTLY innocent but your Girlfriend may need you to help her o overcome her own fear, or some kind counseling if she's okay with that. But, if you don't abuse your alcohol at all, then it's probably her. If you do abuse or overuse your alcohol, then YOU ARE doing something wrong, no matter what you think, otherwise, maybe you need to consider that it's time to get help for yourself, not her!

Answer 4

You must think that you will get someone to sympathize with you, well, NOT HERE!

Stop drinking, you must be an A**hole when you do drink, so quit or lose your girlfriend. If you feel you've, "done nothing wrong," in your own words, I urge you to reexamine your rationale. You are probably not a bad person or a bad guy but obviously, your girlfriend is sending you a message that when you drink, you must do something that is wrong, even if you feel that you have not. Remember, alcohol doesn't allow you to think clearly, so stop drinking and sober up.

Answer 5

Because you haven't figured out that the drinking is the problem you will not only loose this girlfriend but any others in the future. If you need help to stop drinking go to an AA meeting, people just like you who did not know or could not accept that drinking was their problem.

Answer 6

You mean you haven't done anything wrong that you can remember....she obviously recognizes something wrong when you drink...and she is wiser to put her foot down and say its the booze or me...which one goes and which one stays because its the worse hanging out with someone who lets their drinking get out of hand...and it only gets worse from there. Believe me, its funny at first, alot of laughs but within such a short time its such a boring routine to hear a drunk repeat the same stuff over and over that one must think this person may never learn another thing in their life...stop drinking...and begin to experience a healthier life...with or without gf...good luck.

Answer 7

it is ultimatly your choice but if you did not do anything wrong being under the influence of alcohol and she says you cant drink she sounds a little too controlling. you should find out why she doesnt want to drink. if she doesnt really have a good reason and she just doesnt want you to drink then it might be time to move along. this will start a trend where she thinks she has the right to tell you what you can and cannot do. she your g.f. not your mom. do what you do.

Answer 8

If my girl said that to me, the relationship wouldn't last but a week. I drink at least 3-5 times a week.

What you could do is, stop being so whipped and tell her that you're going to drink either way. If she can't trust you, she's not worth your time.

Or find a gal you can drink with.

Answer 9

I would rather my hubby drink while Im there rather than not be there. You can ask her would you rather me go out with my buds and drink or be with you and your not going to have to worry about anything happening. Men like there space and freedom. Every person has a freedom of choice to do what they want. If your girl cant except it find one that does. Good Day.

Answer 10

Maybe your GF was just worried of your health.Then maybe she has a plan of marrying you someday. Then she is a type of person who doesn't like to have a future drunker husband. If you really cares and love your Gf better try to be away from liquor. Then you will have a good health too.

Answer 11

well thats sad you probably have a drinking problem and you need to stop drinking for yourself, then get a girlfriend, maybe the same one ,who knows, but check yourself out, decide if you want to live your life for a bottle or not. because a life in a bottle is very lonely man.