2006-07-25 02:16:28 · 23 answers · asked by chrisluver88 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
and i hid the next time but he found me
2006-07-25 02:22:12 · update #1
Nothing! Dreams are wierd. I have drempt some pretty wacked out stuff. I dont think it mean anything.
2006-07-25 02:19:22 · answer #1 · answered by BOOTS! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not so sure that the best thing to do is discard this as most people above me are suggesting. You know, it could be that he has been looking at you differently and maybe not in a good way. At 13 things aren't always easy to interpret. Some girls are so proud of getting certain things that they think the attention on those things are good. But at the same time the attention actually registers inside as a warning but doesn't reverberate outside. So inside you might realize that he doesn't look at you the way that he should but outside all he is doing is looking at you. If I am right just be careful, try to notice if he is looking at you in a scary way or not. If he is, cover up what he is looking at more, what many people do is look because they don't think you notice. If he knows you notice, he will not continue looking because being married to your Mom is very important to him. I hope I didn't lose you. Be careful and good luck.
2006-07-25 02:25:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any Interpreter of Dreams will tell you that dreams are not literal. If you dream of a boat sinking it is not a premonition that you will be in a boat when it sinks.
I am a stepfather and my stepdaughter and I have been the best of friends since she was four (she is now 21) consider how do you relate to him. Is it a harmonious relationship? Is he mean to you? Do you really think he can force you into something?
If his dream is so upsetting, maybe you should talk to a trusted grown up about it.
2006-07-25 02:34:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means your hormones are waking up and you are thinking about sex, love, life and all that cr*p ... You may dream about other older guys too - teachers maybe or even your older brother or male cousins (if you have any)
It's part of growing up ... but if he really does come on to you, kick him in the b**ls (unless you want him to have sex with you - you're not blood related so although it's wrong, it's not illegal)
I'm 48 and I'd never want to have sex with a 13 year old ... But if she had an older sister (say 18-21) that's another story!
2006-07-25 02:22:43 · answer #4 · answered by Marinersfan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Various combinations of thoughts could have given rise to the eventual dream that you had that seemingly made sense - but it's still only a dream.
It could be your admiration for your step father + your fantasy about sex.
Or your conscious (or unconscious) fear and insecurity towards your step father + you have heard stories about step-daughters being sexually abused.
Just be mindful and protect yourself. But if your stepfather has not done anything and truly loves you with his heart (and you would know if it's true genuine love), then you should just let the dream go.
Another alternative is to speak openly about the dream with your father and your mother together. (Not with your stepfather or your mother alone.)
2006-07-25 02:23:29 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I read some of the other answers and I agree some what with some of them. I also though, think it depends on if you really had a dream like that or if you are just trying to think of a good question for yahoo answers that will get some juicy answers, I hope your step father is a nice guy, and if he is you should give him a chance, sometimes parents don't seem nice, I know because I am one, good luck baby girl.
2006-07-25 02:28:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A dream is sometimes an exaggeration of reality and perhaps you simply need to deal with some issues with your step father that you have never discussed before.
They are bothering you now at a subconcious level and you need to solve them right away before the dreams begin to torment you and affect your well being in reality.
2006-07-25 02:24:12 · answer #7 · answered by Carlos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means that you had a dream that your stepfather made you have sex with him. You probably have some conflicts dealing with your stepfather. I suggest you talk with him about them, calmly and rationally...don't mention the dream just tell him that you have these conflicts and need help in resolving them. A dream is just that...nothing more a fantasy of an overactive mind. Don't read into them much more than what is really there.
2006-07-25 02:19:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't seem to like your step father and he may be abusive to you. Having sex with you is like a forceful punishment to you.
Either you feel guilty of not accepting him or You don't trust and don't want to accept him in your family at all. You projcect that incident in your dream to show that you are angry with him of being part of your family.
2006-07-25 03:27:03 · answer #9 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing i can say to you to stay away from him try not to be alone with him.do you have any kind of romantic feeling for him because some time we might have feeling for people unconsiouly instead of act on it in real life we dream about it. so be careful.
2006-07-25 02:22:25 · answer #10 · answered by meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋