Me and my ex girlfriend recently started dating, and she said I was a bad kisser. Now I am afraid to make any moves, when should i make them and how should i do it. Should I take it slow and just hold her hand at the movies next weekend?
2006-07-25 01:59:31 · 16 answers · asked by sooner33216 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
She put me down when we dated the first time, now she is really sweet and says she doesn't care about the kissing. I don't want to sound like an idiot and tell her to teach me you know.
2006-07-25 02:07:55 · update #1
i think there is no such thing as a bad kisser. if the person is in love with you then they would love how you kissed because it was an intimate moment that you shared with eachother.
2006-07-25 02:02:55 · answer #1 · answered by ™ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Take things at your own pace until you are comfortable. If you push the issue you might get yourself so tense that you screw up (unintentionaly). Talk to her about it.....did she say you were a bad kisser during an argument and didn't really mean it? If she didn't ask her how she likes to be kissed...that is the only way you can "correct" your kissing style.
2006-07-25 09:03:44 · answer #2 · answered by Justlookin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes, people go through routines while kissing. And sometimes they are so focused on how THEY are kissing that they are not RESPONDING to the other person's kiss. It is IMPORTANT to "Be There" for the kiss.
Kissing can have MANY aspects. It should always be RESPONSIVE to the other kisser.
You can chose a kiss to be:
Playful
teasing
soft
passionate (not messy or forced)
...or more.
Take your time in kissing and whatever DOESN'T work for you, leave out! Kissing is an artform and art takes work (and this kind of work is fun!)
2006-07-25 09:02:50 · answer #3 · answered by dustytymes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask her what I could do to be a better kisser. Ask her what she likes and what she doesn't like. To learn to be a good kisser you need to get some honest feeback, and there's nothing wrong with asking.
2006-07-25 09:02:04 · answer #4 · answered by They call me ... Trixie. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why get back together with someone that puts you down, that's just not right. And remember she's only one opinion but someone else might love the way you kiss!
2006-07-25 09:05:05 · answer #5 · answered by DEE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask her for tips on how to kiss? Instead of assuming you need to make all the moves, let your girl teach you some. :P
2006-07-25 09:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by Mosaic 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think holding hands is very nice. But if you want to kiss her right you should relax and go with the flow. Maybe let her lead and you follow.
2006-07-25 09:03:29 · answer #7 · answered by candytrai 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure take your time. And when you do kiss. Think about what you're doing. I like slow, soft kisses. Try those. And not all slobery ones either. That's gross!
2006-07-25 09:02:54 · answer #8 · answered by dolphin2253 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a bit confused, is she your ex girlfriend or your current girlfriend? But in any case, I'd either try to brush up on your kissing skills, or find someone who appreciates what you have to offer them.
2006-07-25 09:02:38 · answer #9 · answered by redneckgirl33 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, if you are such a bad kisser she should be more then willing to help you......you just might have to talk to her....taking it slow is a plus!
2006-07-25 09:14:58 · answer #10 · answered by Toya J 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋