should i really trust such a girl? I guess she is despirate..someone pls bail me out.
2006-07-25 01:45:36 · 12 answers · asked by amiskury 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Eeeek. Run like the wind!!!!
2006-07-25 01:48:24 · answer #1 · answered by Monday's Child 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Run, do not walk away, far far away from this chick. My son is in indescribable agony over just such a relationship. Only difference is, she was sweet as could be when they dated. She purposely got pregnant and now a year later, she threw him out, filed for divorce, said she never loved him and she's taken him for every nickel and is seeing other people already! When someone is pushing for marriage that soon, they have some deep seated emotional problems. Really! My daughter is 24 and she's been dating the same guy for over 7 years. She only just now got engaged and still isn't getting married until next May. That's somebody who knows who they are and feels self-confidant and okay in their own skin. It's healthy. Don't rush into marriage. If it's meant to be, it'll stand the test of time. I wouldn't lie to you! I've been married 22 years this January. Good Luck
2006-07-25 01:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by sevendogmayhem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody respects you more than when you tell the truth.
In other words, you can talk about marriage, the future, kids, the house and the burbs and everything... just make sure you tell her you're not ready for it yet. Tell her you have to make sure that she is in fact the one; you need a little reverse psychology here, meaning the victim should be you, not her. Tell her how you really feel about her, but also that if she is to be the one, then she will also be the one who waits. She will still be the one down the road then, conceivably, even a year or two down the road.
Whatever you do, don't set yourself up to let her believe something that isn't there. Honesty is the best weapon here.
2006-07-25 01:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump her, she got trust issues and obviously did not get over her previous breakups. I suggest that you move on, if you should give into her demands all I can say is that you are digging your grave man. best of luck amigo
2006-07-25 01:50:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok.....so u onli been 2gether 4 2months-she could be anyone and maybe she wants something and she onli gets it if she married or perhaps family and friends of hers are married and she feels left out-either way u need 2 tell her u r not ready 4 that yet
2006-07-25 01:48:54 · answer #5 · answered by chloe!x! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GET OUT! If she's so despirate (sic) that she wants you she's a dummy too and your kids will be doomed.
2006-07-25 01:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by bathroomgirlnyc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
JUST SAY NO!!!!!!!Sounds to me like you have an insecure phsyco on your hands,or just your average golddigger,either way find a reason,break up with her and move on with life before you find yourself buried to deep to dig out.Good luck God bless:O)
2006-07-25 02:24:10 · answer #7 · answered by melissa_froggies 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her to give you more time.You need to know each other a bit more before you think of marriage.Why is she acting desperate?
2006-07-25 01:53:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bob Mukonka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good gawd no you can not trust someone who wants marriage that quickly...run like hell and don't look back!!
2006-07-25 01:48:36 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she sounds really cool, you should marry her and suck her toes allllllll the time xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
2006-07-25 01:49:31 · answer #10 · answered by candypants 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋