Ok here's the thing my ex tod me he broke up with me because my parenta didn't want him but he told me he still love me. okay the thing is that yesterday we were talking by the phone and we started a convesation that is about us that why if he loved me he gave up I asked him, the thing is that I told him that It doesn't has to be like that and he told me it was to late. He met a girl from his hometown Chicago( hes been living in Puerto Rico sience 2000)He met her in internet well what really happened is that they have so much in common and what most shocked me was that this girl flew from Chicago to Puerto Rico just to meet him and they get along very well now and I don't know what to do anymore i know him sense 3 years she knows him a month or two and i told him it was fine that i feel happy for him. the thing is im dying I never expected something like that. What should I do???
2006-07-25 01:39:43 · 7 answers · asked by Janey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know I was vague in my answer a few days ago when I said it will pass. It really will. Any time that you really care for someone (even if you break up with them) you will have these stages. After you go through it once you will understand that these feelings will dissipate and you will be able to move on. You probably can't think about moving on now and maybe even feel like he is "the one" you don't want to get away. One thing I know now is that there isn't just 1 person for us, but many. It is a personality or a group of them that interests us. You will have another love and probably more after that. Enjoy it while you are young and get it in your head that you really will have more men in your life.
I think you reacted well. By leaving it as you did you have the opportunity for him to bounce questions around his own head. Maybe things will work out as you both pass later on in life.
I may sound "matter of factish" but most of us go through this and some of us many many times. And you will feel better, it just takes time.
2006-07-25 14:16:38 · answer #1 · answered by ZIAGACITY 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you put him on the back burner for now :) As he may or may not come to his senses :) They have many things in common for the time being and that is subject to change once they get to know each other better. Just because they are from the same hometown doesn't mean a lot. They are just getting to know each other and you already know him. Your option is to move on or wait a week or two and see what happens with her. If you truly love him wait a week or so and see what happens. Follow your heart and soul Best of luck to you sweetie :)
2006-07-25 08:47:22 · answer #2 · answered by young at heart 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out and have some FUN! Look at it more as an opportunity. There are a lot of great guys out there. Just don't take him with you in your mind. That is the best thing to do. Meet some nice guys for a change, don't worry about him and move on. But, Have some FUN doing it. Now, GET OUT THERE!
2006-07-25 08:47:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yuck! That's close to cheating! I'd kick him the the curb. If he truely loved you he wouldn't be looking for someone else. You seem like a sweet girl. You can find someone MUCH better than him! Good luck!
2006-07-25 13:12:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie me and my guy are going thorugh the same thing..We talked last night and he told me hom and this girl have alot in common.. Dont let that get to you..Just wait for a week..and if hes still is doing it than move on you can do better.. Thats wat im doin
2006-07-25 08:51:31 · answer #5 · answered by Lele12339 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He has already moved on with his life You should too. It will only hurt longer if you try to persue him.
2006-07-25 08:44:33 · answer #6 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get over it and find yourself a new man. you need someone that will stay with you no matter what everyone thinks. he has someone else and you should have someone else too.
2006-07-25 08:43:39 · answer #7 · answered by Jmkisses 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋