2006-07-25 01:36:43 · 21 answers · asked by iamlaura2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think its necessarily the "jerk" or "bad boy" that chases after the 'good girls'. Often times the good girls are drawn to the jerks.
A lot of girls aren't drawn to the 'nice guys'. Nice guys are easy. Nice guys are attentive and want to be there. Nice guys are boring. Nice guys are no challenge. Girls can't 'fix' the nice guy and take credit for making him a better person, since there was nothing wrong with him in the first place.
The jerk attitude: talking girls for granted, stirring up trouble, being cocky and arrogant, are challenges. Girls want to fix these problems and change these guys for the better. And the 'jerk' knows he can take advantage and exploit this.
The opposite of this, the 'jerk' women or bitches. They're the ones using the nice guys and tossing them out when they're done.
Of course this isn't true of all nice girls, but it seems to be the case with an awful lot of them.
2006-07-25 20:22:48 · answer #1 · answered by angling_cyclist 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wish they'd leave the good girls alone, because all the girls I know seem to be with the jerks and assholes.....and i'm one of the nice guys. But then again....girls are attracted to the badasses and such.....so sometimes the girls choose the jerks, and sometimes the jerks come to them *shrugs*
2006-07-25 01:51:07 · answer #2 · answered by high heat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Better get used to it!
Almost all good girls are attracted to jerks.
And the nice guys ALWAYS finish last because a nice guy who
was taught to buy her flowers, take her out to dates, and treat
her like a princess -- simply hasn't done something about it, if even realized that obviously girls are not attracted to him in the long term.
2006-07-25 19:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by markbo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guess the better question would be "Why aren't the good girls able to detect the jerks?"
The Guru
2006-07-25 01:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because that's how they get their rocks off, by peeving off and making good girls react to immature actions. It's a power thing, so don't give in, give them the boot and continue on with life.
2006-07-25 01:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by GirlinNB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a million. being "extra" advantageous is treading dangerously into needy, clingy territory. don't be "extra" advantageous to a female you're actually not in an unique dating with. in case you're basically her chum with hopes of a few thing extra, then she would be in a position to stroll throughout you. in case you're only dating her then she would be in a position to take you with none attention. in case you're in an unique dating or married to her then she would be in a position to adore you. (that's the male version of "why purchase the cow once you get the milk for loose") 2. ignoring somebody and not allowing them to take earnings of you is distinctive than being a jerk. have confidence me, in case you have been quite a jerk...till she exchange into some form of masochist or martyr then she could have dropped you speedier than you have got reported, "hi toddler I forgot my wallet returned. are you able to p.c.. up the tab?" 3. be well mannered and respectful yet call for that she take care of you as properly as you take care of her. Have your guy or woman existence and be accessible while it quite works for the two one in all you (which ability you're actually not following her around and hoping that she'll fawn throughout you in case you're fawning throughout her. you have an entire existence of your guy or woman different than for her and are not based on her to stipulate you. She only complements your existence.). sounds such as you're nonetheless attempting to make certain the place precisely that line between annoying admire for your self and displaying the object of your affection which you're taking excitement in her is. (that's a clue--you may no longer purchase her affection. the type you coach her you're taking excitement in her is to take heed to her so as which you get to be attentive to her after which you provide her considerate presents in line with what you be attentive to approximately her--this shows you're paying interest to her. It takes time.)
2016-11-02 23:12:04 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
every guy wants a good girl even if he is a jerk
2006-07-25 01:39:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're generalizing. If you feel that is true; its because you know someone who has experienced it or that you yourself has experienced. This has nothing to with oppisites attract or any kind of arbitrary answer like that. Its because sometimes relationships work and sometimes they don't, and there are many reasons for it.
2006-07-25 01:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by thedecider20 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Opposites attract
2006-07-25 01:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because since jerks are jerks they dont want to deal with another jerk because they already know thier ways.
2006-07-25 01:41:00 · answer #10 · answered by ms♥ catepillarஐღஐஐღஐ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋