what do u think about a 17 y/o girl and a 22 y/o boy dating?

Question

i like this guy but he just turned 22 and everyone is saying i am dumb for even thinking about it, he seems like a bad boy because he has a warrant out for his arrest but its nothing bad just giving alcohol to minors (how many of u have done that) yeah...but he is such a sweetheart, he would never disrespect a girl he is VERY protective of them...for instance, he stays with my friend sometimes and her bf doesnt even dare to raise his voice at her when he is there...hes cute and i adore him but i dont know about the whole age thing...should it matter? as long as we dont get caught...HELP!!!

Answer 1

ok.. let's try to do the math here.. ur 17 and he's 22? just 5 years your senior! so what's so dangerously risky about that??

now let's move on, ok.. so he's not perfect.. he's got a past.. or should i say a present.. hehe

sometimes we're just so attracted to guys like that.. in my view point.. the age doesn't matter.. now, warrant.. just something he has to deal with..

now i got a question.. is the guy into u? if he is.. and u like him back what's the problem then? ur not going to marry this guy.. well not yet.. the point is u just like him.. what's wrong with hanging out and be a couple (if u guys will be).. then if things are starting to fall apart then it ends.. simple!

so tell me, does it necessarily mean if he's the goody two shoes type and your age, would it make the relationship any better?

think about it..

Answer 2

Well if the violation isn't all that big a deal, why isn't he being a man and DEALING with it? Why is he so unable to face up to it that he complicates the problem to the point of having an arrest warrant? He sounds like a real winner if you ask me. I know the type, buddying up with a younger crowd because there's something so *off* about him that he can't really make friends with people his own age. Normally I wouldn't take issue with age difference (my boyfriend is almost 8 years older than I am) but the fact that he seems to be hanging out with minors to the extent that he does speaks to his character. Please do yourself a favor and move onto another guy. Keep this one in the "friend" category if you must.

Answer 3

what do u think about a 17 y/o girl and a 22 y/o boy dating?

Have u actually read what u wrote on here?

I can't believe you actually think like you do , You say initially "he seems like a bad boy".....Why would u say that if u justify his warrant for serving minors? and then try to make urself believe many of us adults do it too....omg I know now your not really believing that. I dont need to explain why either i hope for your almost a adult (18) so don't be ignorant or in denial over another human.

Why would a man have a warrant anyway unless he dont go to his court dates or is running from the Law and Jail time obviously "and i doubt just for buying alcohol for minors"

(so far that is 2 red flags to date this man already but I sense because u have a crush on him you are doing what many do and that is make excuses or tend to not want to see what we really do about someone we like or love which could in the long run get you hurt mentally, physically or both.

I feel just by your little statement you told so much about this persons profile of a typical controlling , insecure, possible alcoholic pedafile I would not doubt an did I mention con artist "psycopathic" LOSER. "brk it down in english again LOSER, LIAR AND USER FOR THERE SELFISH NEEDS, these guys dont win ur heart being a azzzzzzwhole.....murder's know how to behave as well for thats there call of the chase they love.

And don't you see a pattern here a grown man your calling a boy still btw is hanging out with minors instead of adults (which he is btw) and then u say how many of us give alcohol to minors........????

I never did nor


..but he is such a sweetheart,

sweetheart (why so Im curious do u really know what so sweet)?

he would never disrespect a girl he is VERY protective of them...for instance, he stays with my friend sometimes and her bf doesnt even dare to raise his voice at her when he is there...

he already is disrespecting and showing sx: of control by being at someones home who has a bf and stays there to play bodygaurd ..???? c'mon now wake up....CONTROLLER NOT SWEET CUTE ADORABLE RESPECTFUL GENT.....

honestly why is that respect or sweet.


hes cute

YES THIS IS ALL IT BOILS DOWN TO YOU. I THINK HE KNOWS IT TOO AND PLAYS ON UR EGO AND NIAVENESS. I THINK UR JUST INFACTUATED. BE CAREFUL

and i adore him

ADORE WHAT ??????

but i dont know about the whole age thing..


AGAIN UR QUESTION THE AGE THING , LIKE U KNOW RIGHT FROM WRONG YET U SUPPORT ADULTS GIVING MINORS ALCOHOL....YEAH RIGHT MAKES SENSE

AND I GUESS ALLL MENTALLY STABLE/EDUCATED ADULTS PROVIDE ALCOHOL FOR UNDERAGE PARTIES TO SIT IN THERE BASEMENTS WITH BUNCH OF KIDS JUST BARELY HAD PUBERTY FOR A FEW YRS......jUST TO MAKE SURE THERE ALL SAFE AND PROTECT THEM IF THEY GET TO DRUNK RIGHT???? YOUR NOT SERIOUS....

GOOD LUCK U WILL REMEMBER THIS IF U DO GET WITH HIM ONEDAY.

GL



.should it matter? as long as we dont get caught...HELP!!!

Answer 4

17 and 22? It really depends on the individuals. I don't think its a big deal. I am at the age of 30-31 I dated a girl who was 20, a girl of 21 years, and a 27 year-old girl.

LOL - I have a 17 year old that is interested in my now - I think that is strange....but at 17/18 years old, people have a pretty good idea of what they are doing.

Answer 5

Stay single. Date people your own age. Or when you look back at your life one day you will be saddened and amazed that you were only confident enough to attract people who were too immature to grow up and relate to people from their own generation-who would see their BS coming from a mile away.

PS a warrant means he has NOT faced his charges yet because he has avoided going to court ILLEGALY, that means he has not accepted responsibility so what's the point of dating a dude who is facing possible jailtime very soon.

WAKE UP! LIVE A GOOD LIVE. This one you are picking is so mediocre.

Answer 6

well in today's technology is too advance and sex education is playing a vital part in the world, explore is one thing I believe if the world is moving fast not stagnant than there is no injury or harm in courting at this age. as they say looking at apple does not mean you have tasted it. one should explore before commiting to marriage and so on. humans are not born criminals but are made when time comes in a way faith plays a vital part. so my answer is a bad hack is still ahuman afterall and a chance as the old saying says you can bring a horse to the well but you cant force it to drink the water, no body can force or spoil another person it is within you whether u want to fall in the trap. that is my personal view.

Answer 7

The age difference doesn't matter but the con record certainly does !!! Are you crazy to date a would-be con with a warrant on his head? you're asking for trouble and walking into it with your own legs. Get out while you still can or else suffer the consequences when it is too late to regret.

Answer 8

Bad deal. Not just because he is too old for you, because a 22 year old man should not be attracted to a teenager. Sounds like he is extremely immature, (sorry but supplying alcohol to minors shows a lack of judgement and maturity), and that lack of maturity is what makes it difficult to relate with women...so he is relating with you.

Answer 9

I think it's totally cool....I know exactly what you mean.I'm 17 too and my boyfriend is 25.....although he's older I have a lot more in common with him than with other people my age....he's really sweet, like yours is, and I get the idea you're right for each other.What more do you want?I don't think you're dumb for thinking of it....I mean, what he did wasn't anything serious.....
Where I live, it's legal for me to date a man older than me....where you live, it's not, but hey, love is love lol

Answer 10

At your age, yeah it does matter...if y'all were 25 and 30, not so much...but 5 yrs where you are in life puts y'all on very different pages...

See if you still feel the same about him when you turn 18 and are 'legal'...then, it's nobody's decision but yours...