myself and my gf both have age more then required for marriage but my gf is not ready to run away and got married.i convience her for so many times.she loves me very much but she told that she does not go against her parents.so i am confused.i want to marry with her only because i love her very much.so what should i do?
2006-07-25 01:27:39 · 9 answers · asked by patel j 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
if this girl don't want to go against her parents don't force her because you will make a bigger problem that you don't want to deal with the rest of your marriage so just wait you did say you love her.wait
2006-07-25 01:43:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is a very serious commitment that should be made between the man and women but it is also good to have a parents concent. If she is not ready for any reason then you should wait. If you wait then her family will respect you more. If you just take her and get married they probably will never forgive you.
Have you talked with her parents? Don't assume anything when it comes to this. I would sit both of them down by yourself and tell them that you love their daughter very much and you want to support her and always be there for her. Tell them that you want to marry her but you want their consent first.
Parents really respect this. Good luck. It will work out in the end just be patient you have your whole life to get married!
2006-07-25 03:35:25 · answer #2 · answered by glitter3317 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to see why it is that her parents are so set against you two getting married. Maybe it is that they want her to experience more schooling, or maybe experience more life before settling down and becoming husband and wife. Don't just think about the moment, think about the future. Going against strict wishes might be risking a future relationship with your girlfriends family...is that something you really want to consider? Good luck with your choice.
2006-07-25 19:02:27 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her to arrange a meeting between her father and you. If you are serious be courageous and ask her dad straight forward. If he still doesn't want it to happen. Be patient. And hope your GF is also patient. Flow with the time. Everything will be alright...
2006-07-25 01:38:40 · answer #4 · answered by vickybablani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if she isnt going to go against her parents its always going to be like that. Do you want her marrying you and listening to her parents? Come on now, either let it ride or move the hell on. Sounds like she is a young buck.
2006-07-25 03:04:13 · answer #5 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't get married. Take some time. TALK. See what's the matter. If you act in haste, you're likely to suffer at leisure.
2006-07-25 01:32:44 · answer #6 · answered by mokui 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just take sum1 elder from ur family 2 talk with her parents by taking her first into confidence and try ur best 2 make them convince bcoz ran away is not tha solution and it also hurts parents so she is right from her part so trust on god and move with confidence ahead .best of luck
2006-07-25 01:55:04 · answer #7 · answered by kanu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Propose seriously and give her three months to think about it. If she doesn't say yes, look for another.
2006-07-25 01:35:16 · answer #8 · answered by wmp55 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask her anyway
2006-07-25 06:27:31 · answer #9 · answered by lahotshit26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋