they had been in relationship for 6 years.In those 6 years, they only had 3 years together, the other 3 years they stay far away from each other. My bf has gone 2 study uni oversea and he met me at uni. We now have been in relationship for 2 year. But he still kept in touch with her.
Now, she has moved to the city which we are studying now.
My bf decided to break up with her. But he told me he has to take care of her.
She stays next to his room. She still loves him a lot. I know that because she takes care of him very well.
I cant come to visit him at his place now because of her. She doesnt want to c me and him together. I and him dont want to hurt her so i dont come to c him when she s home.
But sometimes i feel doubt whether their love grow again.
She still loves him.and may be he still loves her...
She is still waiting for him.
He always told me that i should trust him. But i just cant stop myself from thinking of them.
2006-07-25 01:15:45 · 26 answers · asked by ngoc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should have a threesome and all be friends.
2006-07-25 01:16:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I would absolutely not tolerate that for a moment. Not them living together, and not that you have to stay away because it troubles her...she's not supposed to be dating him, YOU are.
Something fishy is going on here, and since apparently he never really got over her, you'd probably do better to say goodbye to him and move on...it's a no-win situation...he's made his choice and he's shown you that by living with her, and being okay with you not coming around...he's letting her call the shots...how much more plain can it get?
Sorry sweetie...but there will be other guys, and they'll be better for you...you don't need someone who's still carrying a torch for someone else, and is busy re-lighting it in your face.
2006-07-25 08:21:39 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to be honest with him and tell him how you feel. Let him know that you are worried that there are feelings between you guys. You also have the right to remind him that another women probably wouldn't put up with this from her bf but because yo love him and want to make it work with him you are trying very hard not to let it bother you. He also needs to know that it is disrespecting you by him letting this go on. He needs to do something about the situation.
2006-07-25 08:21:48 · answer #3 · answered by Sarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is def some issues going on here. If she still loves him and he knows what, why is he still maintaining a relationship w/ her, knowing it makes you feel uncomfortable. Talk w/ your BF, tell him how you feel. HOw would he like if you did the same thing? How owuld he react?? Girl, you better watch out, cause she's going to take your man! He's not showign any respect for you, cause that relationship w/ his ex smells like trouble@!!
2006-07-25 08:20:37 · answer #4 · answered by A_Latina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!! you have a real situation on your hands. but it has a simple answer no matter what you do or who your with if their going to cheat its going to happen. but if you are smart and tell him how you feel it can all be avoided. remember that no one is made of iron and if she still loves him she will do anything to get him in bed. and even if he loves you the smalest fight both of you have will be a vanurable time for him and a sweet time for her. tell him he aint her daddy so he dont have to take of no one but himself and you. ( really i think that whole i have to take care of her is an excuse) let him know what up!!! girl because you will regret it (and **** her *** go over anytime you want what are you stupid? dont you know a ***** when you see one?)
2006-07-25 08:24:35 · answer #5 · answered by luby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the biggest MESS I've seen in along time your boyfriend is living with his ex and she takes good care of him.
Girl something is wrong with this picture and it's you what do they need you for? sounds like their good relationship without you so you mightiest well step aside and let them have their relationship 3 is a crowd.And from the look of it your #3. This is easy they still LOVE one another.he not yours he belongs to the other woman SORRY.
2006-07-25 08:23:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should stop waiting. Tell him that you love him and want to be with him, but also tell him that when he is ready to love you, and only you, that you may, or may not, be there for him to love back. He needs to get his heart straight on who he wants to spend his life with, and you need to think about yourself and your needs and wants and desires. He is making you feel unhappy, unloved and un-needed. You have the power to allow him to do this, or to not allow him to do this. You have the power to give yourself happiness without him. You have the power to let him go, and you should.
2006-07-25 08:22:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What?!!!! Who is she to tell you guys that you cannot see each other at HIS place!!! That's absurd!!!! Does your boyfriend have a backbone? Listen, if he truly loves you, he would have put his foot down regardless of the respect he may have towards her YOU are his girlfriend!!! I honestly smell something fishy and be alert, I wouldn't trust him if I were you!!!!
2006-07-25 08:19:27 · answer #8 · answered by il_caffe_mi_rende_nervosa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situationis completly unfair to you. If I was in your place I'd be really upset. You are supposed to be his girlfriend and he should be caring about your feelings instead of hers. I'd have a talk with him and if he doesn't get it then it would be over. You deserve better treatment. Best wishes and good luck
2006-07-25 08:20:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
This is messed up and you're all idiots. He isn't worth being with for one. Two, she is selfish and needs to grow-up as well as he. And three, you need to tell her to get a life and if he loves you so much he'd leave her now.
2006-07-25 08:19:43 · answer #10 · answered by dancing_with_patience 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey girl you are trying to fool yourself into thinking that they are just friends ,,,,,,,but i dare say that when everybody reads you ?there input will be close to mine.it is clear to see or it should be if they were 'ex''s then he would not feel the obligation to take care of her.not if there relationship has over for along time you say that y'all have been together for 2 years.something is wrong with this picture i would say you defiantly have something to worry about.you need to tell him that it's you or her .see how he picks because he's not being fair to you.one of you girls needs to move on i am afraid if he was my bf,she would be gone if he doest like that then he would be gone..............................................gone.....................................gone hope everything works out for you.
2006-07-25 08:35:29 · answer #11 · answered by Tina H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋